Love 'em and leave 'em  

redmustang91 58M  
8979 posts
6/2/2006 1:58 pm

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6/2/2006 10:54 pm

Love 'em and leave 'em

Guys traditionally are viewed as the players seeking another notch in their belts and known for hit and run love 'em and leave 'em tactics.

News flash. Women are getting like that too!

I have started something with a few females only to find they enjoyed the first time we got together and then vanished in the breeze. Not sure if it is guilt, wanderlust, decided I was not the right type, size or hairiness desired, or what exactly. No info, and no feedback. Just a Houdini-esq disappearing act.

My working theory is the zeitgeist of this age is short attention span, as in flaky behavior. Which leads to less than optimum sex experiences, but that is the punishment for flakiness. I will not take it as a criticism of my lovemaking skills as I have had some long term sex partners who were properly appreciative of my efforts to please and who orgasmed often enough to prove it.

Tell me if you have experienced the vanishing princess syndrome and if you have an explanation for the phenom?

rm_HeavyGal1957 61F
2166 posts
6/2/2006 5:29 pm

If you guys can sew your wild oats and go hither and yon, why can't we women? Double standard, anyone?

Obesa cantavit!

redmustang91 58M  
8924 posts
6/2/2006 10:54 pm

I don't mind the oat sowing and I am not accusing anyone as bad. Just the disappearing is odd. Why not stick around for a while and get to know each other better? More fun and learn to enjoy each other better. At least spend a few weeks together occasionally...

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