Fuck on the second date?  

redmustang91 58M  
8995 posts
7/25/2005 8:15 am

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Fuck on the second date?

The first date for meeting to make sure each has one head and then the norm is sex on the second date, right? Adults with proper birth control have no reason to delay. Except to prolong the suspense and build connections. But what if recreational sex without too many connections is the plan? Second date sex is the right number.

Sex on the first date is a little pushy! So trampy and hot! But the second date you already know each other! So lets start screwing already!

It only sounds ridiculous when it is said out loud!

Ana_6973 45F

7/25/2005 6:09 pm

Hmm, does that mean I'm trampy and hot? I never ask on the first date, but if I'm interested, I don't say no either.

~~"I can scream as loud as your last one, but I can't claim innocence."~~

007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
7/25/2005 9:06 pm

I would never do sex on the first date, hell he may have a glass eye or some shit like that and is seeing me all wrong. I say if you meet have some lunch and enjoy each other then there is definitely a second date.

A few days ago I had this aggressive person trying to get me to meet, when I told him I do not by any means fuck a man on the first date he said I had too many harsh rules. So I said to him oh you are one of those men who want to come meet and if we are attracted to each other, go to a room and get our fuck on so that you can go back and never be seen again? He replied that he didnt see the harm in doing that and I said then you need to find another black woman to experiment with because I am not her, therefore I say no thank you!

I would like to ask you, if you can answer this for me. why is it so important for men to get their fuck on, on the first date? hell a pussy could be crab infested, it could even have teeth, yet a man want in it at all cost! I say thats why so many men get fucked up by wanting to fuck just because the outer covering looked good. LOL

Good post!! by the way I dont think it is ridiculous at all because thats one of my rules. NO SEX ON THE FIRST DATE!

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

redmustang91 58M  
8948 posts
7/26/2005 9:18 am

Well I agree no sex on the first date because it creates too much pressure. I also want to go back and think about her and get steamed up with the fantasy and idea of fucking. Without suspense, you do not get as big a payoff! Consider Psycho, the classic horror/slasher film by Hitchcock. There are only two killings in the entire two hour movie! Lots of build up to the event! Porn with hours of screwing can be boring. You cannot tell if the sex will be good just from looking at the attractive appearance, nor whether she has a std. Some hot looking women are terrible at sex and some ordinary looking women are great at sex. Generally all men want sex, but some are willing to wait a little while for it!

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