To Kiss or Not to Kiss...that is the Question  

readyinlowell2 51M/43F
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9/4/2006 6:43 pm

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9/7/2006 5:14 pm

To Kiss or Not to Kiss...that is the Question

When S and I started the adventure of swinging....we were VERY sure that one of the only things that was a definite NO was Kissing. We did not want that and we were clear on that.

Well then something happened....we had an incredible experience with someone we both really trusted. During the time we were together, C and I grazed lips, and it was at that point I realized that for me....sex with someone I was connected with was missing something without kissing.

I was very nervous to tell S that with C, kissing was something I wanted to consider. As always though...S listened and smiled. He loves to watch me blossom sexually and drop some of the barriers that I have created for myself and our relationship. Once again he was the amazingly supportive guy that he is.

Now, how do I approach this topic with C? Well, after thinking about our encounter everyday since the day we met, and talking about it nearly every day with S, it really seemed like I should tell him that next time that we met, I would love to spend some time kissing him while S ravaged the rest of my body.

But every time I talked with him, I chickened out. Why? Why is it so taboo to mention that in addition to letting him have his way with me every way including sideways, that I would like to spend some time kissing him? Why did it make me blush?

After thinking about it for awhile, I realized that the biggest thing was that I was afraid that S would mind and even after I got his "permission" I was still concerned. But then I realized....that S and I are good at reading each other, and I do know that if he was uncomfortable at the time it happened I would notice.

So, the next step was to find out if C wanted to kiss me. What if he said no? What if that was not on his agenda? Then what? The more I thought about it, the more I realized that I would be greatly saddened.

So yesterday I had the guts to tell him....actually....he caught me on cam whispering to S so I sort of had to tell him. And to my great pleasure he told me that he would love to kiss me! =) Thank GOODNESS!!!!! As I suspected he didn't kiss me because he knows how touchy of a subject it is with couples and he didn't want to disrespect S. Now do you see why we like him so much!!.

So needless to say I am even more excited for our next meeting....

So to answer my own question...with C....its TO kiss!!!!!


ellis1322 39M

9/5/2006 5:31 pm

I can't say enough how happy I am for you that you've been able to grow and explore all that pleases you, both S and C sounds very lucky and I hope you continue to experience new and wonderful things.


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