let's talk about sex?  

purplefroggie69 48F
21 posts
5/6/2006 7:32 am

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5/7/2006 2:02 pm

let's talk about sex?

Okay, so I am laying in bed this morning and I am frickin' horny as all get out...I brush my hand across my nipples and they are very tender...which of course means the moon time is around the corner...which is not good since vacation is about to start...

Anyways...my husband and I do not have sex very often...I used to think I was lucky if I got it once a month, not three, four, six months can pass before we have sex. It really pisses me off, but I know it is not because he don't love me, he just is not horny. He did have his testoterone checked and it was fine. He don't jerk off either so I guess he don't need that release like I do...hell every weekend I have to make myself have an orgasm otherwise I will go freaking crazy.

So, I am laying in bed thinking...I need to get on AdultFriendFinder and find someone to come over today while hubby is at work. Okay, lying there thinking about this...and not really all into it. See, had a guy come over one time and he was such a disappointed and I felt so guilty afterwards...on top of that I am extremely shy about this.

So, I got up, went to the bathroom, brushed my teeth, took off my panties...went back to bed...and started messing around with hubby. He was accepting of my advances, which is not often, and even turned around to hold me...

He eventually moved his hand down to discover I had no panties on and began to rub my clit. I was in heaven. This went on for a little while...I had quite a few orgasims...then poor guy, he gets behind me and tries his best, but it goes limp and he can't do anything else.

So, it was not like the best sex, but at least I did not have to do myself today...

It may be my weight that is ruining our sex life and I am trying to do something about that...So, there is a typical day of my frustrated sex life...

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
5/6/2006 2:05 pm

Hi Purple...

Welcome to blog land. Thanks for stopping by my blog and leaving a comment.

A woman begins to come into her sexual peak around your age. A man's peak begins around 19-20 and begins to wane a few years later. That could be a part of the problem.

About your weight sweetie. I was quite large myself at one time. I've lost the weight. It was hard and I still struggle to keep it off. "The South Beach Diet" is a good resource. You can find info about it on the internet.

But..there is also the need to think of yourself as beautiful and reinforce that thought every day. Treat yourself as beautiful. Do the nice..sensual things for yourself. Getting your hair done..make up..manicure..bubble baths..lotions and oils for your skin. Pamper you. Make sure you have some nice things to wear..especially undies and nighties..and WEAR THEM. Don't hide them away in the drawer or closet. Try garters and stocking instead of pantie hose. When you do those things for yourself..you'd be surprised at what it can do for your ego. When you feel beautiful..you act beautiful..and others treat you that way.

Don't take my word for it. Just try it for yourself.



purplefroggie69 replies on 5/7/2006 6:12 am:
Thanks, Kiss. In the past three years I have started to spend more time and money on me. Pretty lingerie and getting my hair done regularly are top on the list. I know makeup really does enhance my face, but I don't usually take the time. I will need to work on that. I am on the Weight Watchers Plan. Which is great and I do water aerobics, however lately with a vacation right around the corner I got a little lax with the stress of planning the vacation. So, I am going to try my best to watch what I eat and get exercise, but if I don't in the next two weeks that is okay. When I get back on the 30th we'll pick up and keep going from there.

rm_gigolo394 51M
136 posts
5/6/2006 5:48 pm

Too bad...I'm 16,000 kilometers away from you...just relax...
Hopefully,things will get better soon

purplefroggie69 replies on 5/7/2006 6:14 am:
Thanks gigolo, I am sure things will improve. I will have to make them improve. I agree 14,000km is a bit far to hookup.

rm_CuummDrop 50F
2591 posts
5/7/2006 10:24 am

i have to agree with kiss on this one.... Feel beautiful.. You are beautiful.. Feel sexy... OoOoOo la la... things will change... Trust me...

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c

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