Daddy's Girl  

purejoy4fem 47F/46F
860 posts
6/4/2005 1:07 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Daddy's Girl

Our families don't agree with our life-styles. Both of our families would like us to get married (to men) and make grand-babies. So I was surprised to get an invitation to a sweet 16 for one of my nieces, that included both of us. So last night we got all dressed up and went to the reception hall. Much to our chagrin, we were seated at separate tables. I spent some time chatting with family members, but kept glancing over to Thalia, sitting at a table with a bunch of people she didn't know. After a 1/2 hour of idle chit-chat, I made my way over to her table, chatting with long-lost relatives on the way, and finally got to her. I apologized to her, and suggested that we leave. My darling would have none of that, she wanted me to be able to enjoy my family for the evening.

At that moment, I felt a hand on my shoulder. Turning, I saw my dad standing there, smiling. "Why don't you invite Thalia to sit with us?" he asked. I knew he was going to catch hell from mom for this, but in that moment I was filled with joy, my eyes filled with tears and I fell into his arms and gave him a hug that expressed what I could not say at the moment.

Except for an awkward silence from mom, the rest of the night went well, and my dad confirmed my belief that I have the world's greatest dad.

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
6/4/2005 3:55 pm

... big hugzzz for you, your partner and your dad. Too bad things still go like that all too often.

expatbrit49 64M

6/4/2005 4:06 pm

Ha thats just a girl thing, my daughter can twist me around her finger too, she always has been able to do it, and she probably always will.

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

missy97330 48F

6/4/2005 11:27 pm

Seated at seperate tables? That is odd...and rude. Good thing your dad had the good sense to change things to the way it should have started.

rm_unlistedone 67M
2718 posts
6/5/2005 7:09 am

You're dad is one class act. My daughter could get that responce from me, also. Expat is right, the little finger thing and dads.

mnfun952 103M

6/5/2005 9:40 am

How can you possibly go wrong with a love like Thalia and a Dad who loves you unconditionally?

Enjoy a beautiful day today...


mygmyg 60M

6/5/2005 11:04 am

Pure Joy 4 fem, happy for you both, and your Dad, being estranged from family for whatever the reason is tough. Never stop loving them, Know in your hearts that you make each other happy, Your father has stood up and let it be known to everyone that he loves you and nothing is more important than his love for his daughter and her happiness!

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
6/5/2005 1:38 pm

that was a lovely moment for you both,it brought tears to my eyes just reading it,Dads are wonderful forgiving and loving creatures,the first men we fall in love with and the one that last for ever,hugs hun,your mom will be next,

I'm a

i'm here to stay

titsrus2 53F
331 posts
6/5/2005 1:57 pm

that's so sweet. parents always have an idea of what they want you to be and when you're not like their ideal, they try to force you into it...sooner or later, they usually realize that they love you just because you're you - their child.

rm_bella_ 48F
4030 posts
6/5/2005 11:59 pm

purejoy...i am so happy for you. Life is so much easier when there is support

rm_4nik8_4u 62M
2501 posts
6/6/2005 7:43 am

You made my eyes water! I feel so vulnerable right now!

fictionalme 35M

6/6/2005 9:44 am

That is just incredibly sweet, purejoy. Having read that, my day is a little brighter =]

elle_gant1 47F
78 posts
6/6/2005 11:20 am

I am so happy for you, big hugs

Barbiebunny69 45F

6/6/2005 11:58 am

GO Dad! I was talking to a friend this weekend that"came out" and found that dads are more accepting thant moms..usually..wierd isnt it? But thank god for good daddies. Ure very lucky wish i was a daddys girl...

Jerosd 48M

6/6/2005 2:54 pm

daddy's are the best

rm_mieze626 53F
145 posts
6/6/2005 3:43 pm

Maybe it takes a little longer, but if your dad already came along, your mom will drag behind sooner or later. You are her daughter, and deep in her heard she want to except, but still has a difficult time to jump over her own the way, thank you for reading my blog and posting a means alot to me

gentlemenjim8u 54M

6/7/2005 4:30 am

I am sure it is an all around awkward deal.Good for your dad I know it is hard for him this was a very fracious gesture that shows how much he loves yoo.I hope one day to have that 1 day i can share something like thgat with my son. just not in same subject manner i hope. By the way there are guys that can do everything a girl can plus more sure would make life easier then share girls together if so inckined. Yes i have stolen girls away from very attractive and highly sought afterl lesbians and ladies i can do it again if i want . haeh haeh haeh im coming for yours girl , girls

keithcancook 61M
18125 posts
6/7/2005 6:38 am

This post made me feel very good. Very very good. Thanx y'all.

starlight_runner 40F

6/8/2005 12:47 am

I love your relationship.I am glad your papa can see past his reservations.You are amazing.

Kisses and hugs


rm_BabyGIrl_503 41F

6/8/2005 9:18 pm

I've been browing around here and there and keep running into your blog entries. I have to say I do love this gorgeous picture of you. This blog entry was touching and reminded me of my Dad. My Dad is charming and has always made me feel accepted and loved. Props to your Dad. I hope everything goes well for you and Thalia. I wish I could meet you both.

ByteChaser2 54M

6/8/2005 11:39 pm

Yes, you do. The same kind of father I hope I can be for my baby. Strong and supportive. And loving.

No... not hoping. I will. Thank you!

PerthPete 51M
124 posts
6/11/2005 6:14 am

Great news for you Joyce and Thalia. Best of luck with your Mum, and with Thalia's parents. hugs, Peter.

rm_kaaia 54F
6 posts
6/12/2005 6:31 am

I have read all your blogs and you are a wonderful writer. You really touched my heart with this one though. I lost my Dad a year and a half ago and this just brough tears to my eyes. Daddy's are always a girls first love. Bravo!

rm_notn2itall 55F
1 post
8/17/2005 2:43 pm

True unconditional LOVE.

Best of luck to you guys

IPman 62M
313 posts
9/15/2005 7:21 am

Wow, what a great story, it speaks volumes about your lover and your Dad.

If I had to guess your Mom loves you just as much as your Dad... she just comes from a time when how her friends and family see you is a key factor on how accepting she is going to be of your choices. Have patience with Mom, she might come around.
Thanks for sharing this!

dano6332 57M

10/2/2005 7:14 am

Good for your dad if your happy why would a parent want anything else?

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