What the fuck am I doing here?  

puntachueca 106M
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5/22/2006 5:57 pm

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5/25/2006 6:05 am

What the fuck am I doing here?

After trying to define “who the fuck am I?” the obvious next question is “what the fuck am I doing here?”

Since the stated purpose of AdultFriendFinder is sexual connection...that’s obvious.

But there’s more involved.

I’m a diverse person...lots of different interests. Kind of a Renaissance sort of guy...into art, music, politics, writing, photography.

While it is easy to find an intellectual match, or political compatibility, or whatever vis a vis the lists of “match” things on conventional dating sit...the problem is there are a lot of ladies that match on some facets, but not on the sensual/sexual side.

My ex (jokingly) suggested that I ought to start looking for a relationship by asking the lady if she didn’t mind me looking up her skirt and telling her "I’d like to caress your pussy covered panties"...or "would you mind if I took a picture of your beautiful legs..?"

Kind of got tired of my sexuality being seen as some kind of perversion.

So I got to thinking, why not?

What I’m looking for is a smart, independent, opinionated lady who can exchange interesting conversation about anything, who likes adventure, and who is sexy and sensual all at the same time. In other words, I’m looking for a woman who would love me to take pictures of her naked body and who can argue about economics and wouldn’t mind joining me in a wacky quest to find out where jackalopes are made. A woman who can write and writhe.

So…where does one find this rich mix of brains and body?

What is clear now, via the blogs, is that such women really do exist!!!

Like..if a woman is willing to post a sexy picture of herself on this site and blog openly about her sexual fantasies or escapades as well as her views about a lot of other things...and she's reading mine...that eliminates a lot of "issues".


HBowt2 60F

5/25/2006 2:21 am

wow indeed.....nothing like being told that you are perverted to drive you looking somewhere else is there?........

puntachueca 106M

5/25/2006 6:05 am

Yup. And I think there's a basic problem out there. A lot of people with twisted judgemental values putting everyone else down that is different. That's why this blogville thing is so fascinating...a like minded community sharing themselves, finding out they are not alone, recognizing that sensuality expresses itself in many ways and that as long as that expression doesn't hurt anyone or use them, it's ok. You're ok. I'm ok. We're all good. We've just been hanging and trying to relate with the wrong people.
Very affirming and healing stuff this is. I hope the same for you.

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