LOVING BEING A WOMAN  

prettypussy4004 88F
1033 posts
1/18/2006 6:37 am

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LOVING BEING A WOMAN


Wow, what a year...okay last year I felt I was missing something because I have never been with a woman. Becoming more sexually aware of my own needs I just felt I had to try it. I came to this site and learned very quickly how much I take for granted sexually as a woman, here's my story. 2004 I joined the site out of loneliness and the need for sexual comfort(married but no sexual contact in the marriage, yes guys there are men out there who are frigid too). I was bombarded with 30 emails the first 24 hours on the site and I tried to address each but it was just too time consuming, I felt. So I half ass talked to people and I found myself being very judgmental as if interviewing for a life partner. I left the site after 30 days because I was so over whelmed. I did not see it for what it is...sex, I was trying make it appear to be something more because that's the way I was raised. You made love you did not fuck but as I look back I pretty much got fucked by every man I have ever been with , excluding my husband of course. So, what's the big deal then right? Well, after meeting with several people and not clicking I got frustrated and just fucked someone...don't get me wrong he was a fine brother and was very clean but I got nothing out of it so I left the site. In 2005 I joined the site again and this time I was looking for a woman because as I said I felt I was missing out on something. I learned very quickly that the women on this site, that were professional as myself and around my age(40ish), were very cautious. So much so that I was on the site for two months getting 1 or 2 emails a day and then meeting face to face with one female and through that encounter(which was only a kiss) I learned what I needed to know and that is this...I AM HAPPY BEING A BLACK, SIZE 10 WOMAN...LOVING MEN. I support the gay and lesbian rights, BBW's, and interracial loving but what about those of us that are happy the way we are, stretch marks, flabby skin and all. Even though I have not had problems getting a man some feel they need to treat a woman THEY THINK are spoiled in a bad way as if to say she deserves it for being attractive. So fellas who are reading this if you have not gotten that well deserved apology from some pretty woman that did you wrong or took advantage of you this is for you...I AM SORRY FOR ALL THE UNDESERVED BAD TREATMENT YOU HAVE EVER GOTTEN FROM A PRETTY WOMAN...I've been punished time and again for some other pretty woman's handy work but I keep it on the real side. I think I have learned a lot in the past year and I will be better when it comes to how I deal with each and every email I get. We are all just people on this site can't we all just have a little respect with each other. I also just wanted to say that I appreciate all the attention I get from my photo's, I got 74 emails in the first 24 hours(a lot f help from my pics) you don't know how that makes a girl of my age feel. I did respond to all that came at me correct and I must add there are few who just get deleted so thank you for the respect. I wish I could get with all that seem so sweet, but that would make me something I'm not so, Even if I'm not the one I do wish you well on your search. For the few I will get to meet and the one or maybe two I choose will not be disappointed unless my status gets in the way as it has done for me in the past but I am not trying to leave my husband.
Pretty

No road is traveled alone, just know your journey is a shared one.
{=}Pretty


rm_ChivasRegal 58M
69 posts
1/18/2006 6:31 pm

Apology accepted and some of us do get along. I do it thru jokes and laughter, because I don't take this site so serious. Just keep your head up, stay professional and sexy, thats all I ask. Now that we got that outta the way..here's a big

ps. Age ain't nothing but a number, life as I know it didn't begin until I was 40, many many moons ago...


mr_reeman 48M
1 post
1/18/2006 10:10 pm

The more I read from you, the more genuine you seem.


prettypussy4004 88F

1/21/2006 3:53 am

Well, Chivas I must admit it is true what they say about a woman going into her 40's sex is the GREAT....we just get to a point that we don't take a lot of relationship stuff to heart and it becomes easier to move when you have too.

PS Thanks for your comment Mr_reeman because the more you get to know me the more genuine I will become.

No road is traveled alone, just know your journey is a shared one.
{=}Pretty


jamaicag 55M

1/21/2006 6:05 pm

I hear you talking PP. Based on my conversations with you, you may be almost to real to be true. I look forward to meeting you. You don't have to apologize for anything or anyone. Everyone's life has taken different paths. Different people, different regions of the country, etc. By not being in the BOX, that alone will get a mans attention, because we always felt, that we were the only one's NOT stuck in the box, when it comes to sex. Sex is what you make of it. If you want to use it to exercise...fine, make luv..that's on you, to make other sexually minded people happy....priceless!


prettypussy4004 88F

2/11/2006 9:50 pm

Thanks for the comment jamaicag, and maybe one day I will make that trip to Jamaica.

No road is traveled alone, just know your journey is a shared one.
{=}Pretty


rm_bigjohn3992 47M

4/26/2006 10:59 am

Pretty,

It is nice to see a pretty and intellagent women on this site. Thank you for sharing.

It is like they say, the biggest sex organ ever is your brain and you seem to have a very sexy brain.


prettypussy4004 88F

4/30/2006 10:43 pm

Thanks bigjohn, I try to keep it real inside and out.{=}

No road is traveled alone, just know your journey is a shared one.
{=}Pretty


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