Sex sounds....  

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
3045 posts
6/5/2006 8:18 am

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Sex sounds....

Okay, I have a question. Its a serious one too! I just don't know. I was watching a clip of a porn the other day, and from what I could see there was no penetration or anything, but she was just moaning and just going on about it. I'm thinking, "Oh my gosh, that is soooo fake! Nothing is going on!" He wasn't touching her, she wasn't touching herself at the moment. So I think to myself, I'm not very "loud" during sex. Sure, I gasp, sigh, some moaning, do the oh yes, yes thing too, but not at the top of my lungs kinda thing. Am I doing it wrong? Am I supposed to be really loud? Are all women everywhere else loud and just myself "quiet"? Is this is what is wrong of me? Should I just start moaning at the top of my lungs? You know, basically "shouting it from the roof tops"? Oh no! I've given myself a complex now! What to do, what to do! I don't know!!!!!! I don't know!!!!! *sobbing uncontrollably*

IrishKev 41M
1523 posts
6/5/2006 8:54 am

The thing about porn is that it is so fake and manufactured for men so the last people I would try and copy would be them! Some girls are louder than others but there are very few out there that moan like a wild cat without even getting touched

When you're having sex just enjoy it and not worry about whether you should be screaming like a banshee or not

rm_Luscious2BBW 48F
35 posts
6/5/2006 8:56 am

Sometimes I am quiet, sometimes not. It all depends on how wound up I am and how GOOD he is.

monkeyboy818 38M

6/5/2006 8:57 am

Of all the woman I have slept with (not many) only one of them was very loud. It didn't really make a difference to the sex. What really puts me off is a woman who doesn't make any noises at all. Surely if you enjoying it theer should be some noises. As long as your enjoying it don't worry about making sure the next door neighbours know what your up too.In my experience every woman is different

SleekIcilyVarix 42M

6/5/2006 8:59 am

I agree with rod. I've been with loud enough to wake the neighbors down the street and quiet enough not to wake her kids. It's not something you need to worry about.

ByteChaser2 54M

6/5/2006 9:01 am

Not in my (limited) experiance... Then again, I guess "loud" is a relative term. There was this one woman who'd vocalize... but certainly nothing loud enough to wake the neighbors or anything.

Then again, who's to say whats normal and whats not right? If it makes you feel good, then giter dun!

earthShiva 61M

6/5/2006 10:07 am

There is no right, wrong, normal or incorrect way to play with your body. Be yourself, but be playful, too. Set aside a "sandbox date" with your lover, with the specific intention of getting really noisy, just to play with it. You'll probably find it totally contrived, totally silly and have a lot of laughs with it. Then, down the road, you might find yourself getting noisier from time to time...

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
6/6/2006 8:24 am mean its fake????? *look of shock* I thought all guys dreamed of being pizza delivery boys and lawnmowers?

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
6/6/2006 8:26 am

Luscious...well there is no "sometimes I am not" for me. Maybe I just haven't been with anyone "good" yet? I dunno....maybe

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
6/6/2006 8:27 am

Irish...obviously its not just for men! lol. I try not to worry about how "loud" I am or am not, but I wonder if it would excite my partner if I was "loud"?

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
6/6/2006 8:31 am

Monkey, thanks! So for a woman being louder doesn't get you going more than one being quieter?

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
6/6/2006 8:36 am

Fire...thanks! I will try to keep that in mind.

Byte...I'm trying, I'm trying. Question is, would you want to be with someone that was loud enough to wake the neighbors?

Bug...perhaps I'm focusing in to much on how loud I am to really enjoy sex? Could that be the reason as to why I've not had an orgasm during sex, and have during oral sex? Hmmm...thats a theory I might have to test out. Thanks!

Earth...a sandbox date? Never heard of that before! I probably agree with you though, I would find myself doing that silly and probably laugh way to much. Although, laughing is good for one's health! lol.

Spunky...yet another one that suggests I'm focusing to much on sounds. Maybe, I will try to experiment with that. Thanks!

CaboWaboVHnut 57M
637 posts
6/9/2006 9:07 pm

Have you ever seen a movie with Terri Weigel in it ? When she first got fired/banned from Playboy for doing porn, I was really fired up to see her, even talked about driving 50 miles to rent one if necessary. Well, luckily my local store finally got one, so that saved me a trip. Guess what, when I FINALLY got to see her, I couldn't stand to listen to her insanely loud screams and yowls !!! She may be enjoying it that much, but I don't think so !!!

I've seen a few of her movies, and it's the same thing every time, screeching like a banshee through every scene !!! Definately don't compare yourself to these stupid porn movies, just make whatever sounds come naturally, and be happy that you're feeling that way !!! Peace !!! Cabo !!!

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
6/9/2006 11:20 pm

Hmm...never heard of her. I might do a little research to find info on her. Wow, banned from playboy. Is that a feat? Glad you didn't have to waste a 50 mile drive after all. Guess that is also why they invented tv's with mute. lol.

I hope you weren't willing to drive 50 miles still to view her other videos. Thanks!

CaboWaboVHnut 57M
637 posts
6/10/2006 10:04 am

Oh no, I was able to rent them locally. I kept thinking {stupidly} that they might eventually improve, NOPE !!! They were all equally annoying. She did have a scene with a black female pornstar who actually made as much, maybe even more noise, than she did !!! It was kind of funny !!! Cabo !!!

CaboWaboVHnut 57M
637 posts
6/10/2006 10:08 am

I almost forgot, she was banned from Playboy because they felt that porn was below their standards !!! That she couldn't uphold the high moral character of their fine magazine !!! That Hef, what a pompous ass !!! Cabo !!!

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
6/10/2006 2:16 pm

So much for the high moral character of the magazine, wasn't it not to long ago that they got in trouble for "illegally" using pictures of a female celebrity?

squezemetight 35M
103 posts
6/15/2006 10:55 pm

depends on the neighbors. if they were pricks then i'd want her to scream like a banshee. if they were nice, i'd probably say shut up, they need their sleep. i've been with 3 women. first one, you don't need to know about lol. second one was extremely quiet. when she got loud i asked if she came with a remote control so i could turn the volume up. last one made me want to slap her cause she was ruining it for for me. made it seem like the porno you described. and the next one, i really don't know if i want to find out anytime soon. as for the sounds made during sex, let them be heard by you and your partner. not the drunken idiot trying to pass out in the same garage. it tends to get gross. but at least i didn't have to see them naked..........i still get creeped out from that nite.

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