More Bang for your buck!  

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
3045 posts
6/13/2006 5:30 pm

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6/22/2006 7:46 pm

More Bang for your buck!

Okay, I have been wondering as to why I haven't been able to have an orgasm during actual sexual intercourse. I've tried different positions. My favorites are on top and from behind *doggie*. Anyways, I was wondering if there was a specific trick I could do to get to know how to have one. I know, I know, relax, don't think about it, or "maybe you are one of the ones that just can't have one". Blahhhhhhhhhh! Don't tell me that! I know I can...I have faith in myself and by darn I'm gonna keep on trying! lol.

Is there a particular position that I can try? A particular thing I could ask my partner to do?

And oh my gosh, this past week I've been just DYING to have sex. I want to soooooo bad! Grrrrrrrrrr....

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
6/14/2006 10:44 pm

Oh my gosh, your post had me cracking up! lol. To funny....

Seriously, yes I do have a steady "partner", and ummmm...might wanna read some past posts but to keep ya up to speed on things, we don't exactly get along. I can have an orgasm during oral sex, and ummm...manually? for lack of a better term, its just DURING the actual vaginal penetration that I don't.

STCMOguy4fun 38M

6/16/2006 2:43 am

At the cost of sounding like a jerk... need help... sorry could not help it... someone had to offer. Now that that is out of the way, drop me a line... if i can lend any advice i would be glad to.

Just normally do not like to give advice online because people tend to take it the wrong way.


rm_marneman1988 48M
166 posts
6/18/2006 8:29 am

The only advice I can give you is to keep trying. Sometimes it takes a while to figure out exactly how to hit the "right spot" during intercourse. And it doesn't hurt to use your hand while having intercourse. Whatever works is always good. If your partner doesn't understand it or like it, then talk to them about it. But since you said you don't get along too well, that may not be a good idea. Using a vibrator may help as well, if you have one. Personaly, I like watching a woman do that while having intercourse, it makes it steamier!

altimaser05 38M

6/21/2006 9:43 am

what i do when i run into that problem is i use the tri-factor. i drive my dick into her throat, start playing with the clit with my finger and suck on her tits all at the same time. it's tough to keep it going but it sometimes works. that's myonly advice. i hope it helps.

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