Why Would You.....?  

pragmaticCTcpl 62M/51F
3614 posts
9/7/2006 5:15 pm

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9/16/2006 8:17 am

Why Would You.....?


A few weeks ago I wrote on here that Mrs. Prag was looking for a new FWB. ..... WantedFWB

Since that time, we've gotten emails and IM's
on here, from guys that have read it and were interested.

Yesterday, while I was trying to write a blog, another guy IM'd me. His initial message is what made me answer him...and the rest of the conversation went like this.....

IM'er: Hi. I read your blog and wondered, is the she of you still looking for a FWB?

pragmaticCTcpl: We're always open-minded when it comes to that.

IM'er: Am I speaking with the m or f ?

pragmaticCTcpl: Right now, you have the m. The f of us is out right now.

IM'er: Would you mind if I asked you some questions?

pragmaticCTcpl: I'll answer what I can. Go ahead.

IM'er: Your profile says that you are married, but she's looking for someone that she can be with alone, without you, after you're there initially to meet them. Is that true?

pragmaticCTcpl: That is one possible scenario. If she's attracted to and comfortable with someone, and if everyone is in agreement, then yes, I don't have to be there. It's happened before.

IM'er: Doesn't that bother you? Knowing that your wife is having sex with someone else?

pragmaticCTcpl: If it was behind my back or if she was to lie about it, yes. My wife and I both love sex. We're both happy with what we have, so why should the physical pleasure of sex, with others, upset our applecart?

IM'er: It's never bothered you? To watch her be with someone, or know she's been with someone else?

IM'er: Most guys would be jealous. They would never stand for it.

pragmaticCTcpl: I've watched her have sex with other guys, women, and couples. It's never bothered me...in fact, it's a hot turn-on..! My wife loves sex...it makes her happy...I like to watch her be happy.

pragmaticCTcpl: "Most guys," are only concerned with

pragmaticCTcpl: Sex with others, is something we do only occasionally. It's not like she's a whore or insatiable nymph, just out fucking anything with a dick or a pussy, everyday. We're very selective and take our time. If communications work out, then we meet. If everything is comfortable for everyone, then we move ahead.

IM'er: You make it sound simple.

pragmaticCTcpl: Why make it complex? Like the old saying goes, "if it feels good, do it..!" We only have safe sex, including her doing oral on guys...we offer and expect discretion...and we only have one basic rule..."No, means no..!"

IM'er: It sounds like it doesn't bother you.

pragmaticCTcpl: We have each other's complete trust. We also have love, open and constant communication; and we are each other's best friend. If it were to become "bothersome" to either of us, we'd communicate those feelings and resolve them.

pragmaticCTcpl: Let me ask you a question.

IM'er: OK

pragmaticCTcpl: Do you understand the meaning of "Friend with Benefits?"

IM'er: From your blog and your profile, I think so.

pragmaticCTcpl: Words like "friends," "respect," and "understanding" go along with it. Words and phrases like "booty call," "fuck-slut" and "I can be there in 30 minutes" don't.

IM'er: I understand.

IM'er: You said before that you only do this occasionally. How often is "occasionally"?

pragmaticCTcpl: That's a question I cannot answer. Real life, and its responsibilities, do have a way of being the limiting factors. Schedule compatibility, friends (without benefits), family, time-of-the-month, weather and driving conditions...all come into play as far as defining "occasionally."

IM'er: Think she would be interested in meeting me?

pragmaticCTcpl: Again, that's a question, I cannot answer.

pragmaticCTcpl: You don't have any pictures on your profile. If you'd like to send at least a facial picture by email, then she could decide if there is any interest.

IM'er: Thanks for chatting with me.

pragmaticCTcpl: Bye.


mysticdreamangel 62F
2759 posts
9/7/2006 8:39 pm

Mr. Prag...you guard her well!

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 9/11/2006 2:15 pm:
Until my last breath...

rm_latteudo22 60M
31 posts
9/7/2006 11:24 pm

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pragmaticCTcpl replies on 9/11/2006 2:22 pm:
Dank fur das Besuchen unseres blog. Da ein Standardmitglied du nicht unser Profil vermutlich lesen kann, das im Teil sagt, dab... wir nicht an verheirateten Mannern interessiert sind, ohne ihre Frauen. Verstehen?

firestarter665 43M/40F

9/8/2006 5:44 am

Wow, that was a deep conversation for an IM. Thanks for posting it.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 9/11/2006 2:24 pm:
You're welcome..!

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
9/8/2006 9:11 am

Again, I'll say it! You two are something else!

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 9/11/2006 2:29 pm:
Thanks, again, angel..! {=}

quietmansect 42M
749 posts
9/8/2006 3:14 pm

It's funny how for some people sex is something beautiful to be shared and incorporated into daily life. For others it is some perverted thing that must be described with ugly words and hidden from view. You certainly represent the former, and unfortunately there are too many of the latter on the internet.


pragmaticCTcpl replies on 9/11/2006 2:35 pm:
Thanks, quietman..!

As in all aspects of life.....

TheRealThing655 49F
9558 posts
9/8/2006 9:56 pm

Thanks for sharing that....you two are really a special couple and I like the way you are so honest, loving and respectful of each other.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 9/11/2006 2:37 pm:
You're welcome, RT..!

And thank you for the kind words.

BlackHeatLust 48M

9/15/2006 9:42 pm

Sounds like the 2 of you are very close indeed and very thought ful in knowing what you want and with whom to do that with.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 9/16/2006 8:17 am:
Thanks, BHL..!

It's just one of the things that makes us who we are.

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