Our Best Foursome  

pragmaticCTcpl 63M/51F
3614 posts
4/23/2006 12:39 pm

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Our Best Foursome

For those of you that have been reading our blogs for awhile...you've seen a few that have told of our disappointments with getting together with others for sex.

Well, boys and girls...let me re-assure you, we don't just have bad experiences...and ALL of our planned get-togethers don't get blown off by the others.

Recently, we had a foursome with another couple, that was absolutely great..!

We had been communicating with them for about three months, and had met and gotten together a few times, without any sex.

Yes, our schedules did get in the way a few times, and once, when we had made a date, we had to back out a few days early, because of an illness.

Anyway...we finally got together.

I'm not going to give you a play-by-play of the whole evening...first, because it was between JUST us four (we do practice what we preach...discretion)...and secondly, because even though I didn't over-indulge with anything containing alcohol (okay, I had a few) at last night's CTBlogger's Meet & Greet (a separate blog will go more into that)...we were up pretty late...had a great time with everybody...but are both feeling like we DID over-indulge last night...today.

Our foursome was, without a doubt, the most rewarding experience that we've had, to date.

I guess you could say that because we had been in touch with each other over the course of the past few months...on IM's and the phone...AND several times face-to-face, in non-sexual get-togethers, we got to know each other pretty well, BEFORE we got physical.

We refer to a satisfying, no-pressure experience, as one that affords EVERYONE the same level of comfort.

We both love sex. It was obvious, from our communications, that they love sex, too.

No obsessive behaviors...nothing anybody felt uncomfortable with...or had to be negotiated, before or during.

The "chemistry" was there from the beginning...initially with the pictures we exchanged, and then confirmed, face-to-face, as far as the physical attractions go.

Our conversations always felt comfortable and natural. Even the first time we got together, we were comfortably able to talk about EVERYTHING...not just sex.

Another aspect of why this was such a rewarding experience for us is the fact that it truly was a foursome.

Not a "wife-swap," where I'm with his woman and he's with mine, and we only concentrate on each other's mates...as if they aren't even there. It wasn't a touch-feely, "soft-swap," or resticted get together, with time between opposing mates, but none of this...none of that...and no "final-swap," except with our own mates (Who coined these phrases?).

The women did have their time together, but it wasn't without the guys being a part of it ("okay, just the two of us girls are going to enjoy each other sexually for awhile...you guys can watch...and if you want, there's popcorn in the kitchen!").

The oral sex that we all enjoyed, was given and received. It's a turn-on for both of us to be able to watch and feel, at the same time. The multi-media, sensory overload of watching, experiencing, hearing moans and orgasms, feeling the bed bounce around...hands and fingers...lips and tongues........

And the "final swap" was doubly exciting and rewarding, because as he was fucking my wife...and she was fucking him...and I was fucking her...and she was fucking me...we were all on the bed at the same time, and all four of us were able to interact...again, touching...kissing...listening...watching......

Even the little "break" we all took, to re-hydrate and cool down a little before resuming, was without any drama or wonder. We had a little alone time with our respective mates to make sure everything was good, and we talked about anything and nothing related to sex, during that break.

Our "good-bye's" at the end of the evening weren't forced or hurried...there was no need for us to have a post-sex, analytical discussion, to see if we all had a good time...nor was anyone clawing at the door to escape because of the nightmare that they had just expereinced.

We've talked with them a little, since that night...not too much about the specifics of that night's experience...other than to affirm that we all enjoyed it.

Will we ever get together with them again?

If our schedules mesh...if they feel the same as we do, that it was a truly great experience...and the opportunity presents itself again...ABSOLUTELY..!

It wouldn't be with an obsessive desire to "do it again...SOON," but with the knowledge that we enjoy their company...who they are...and that the sex was great.

TheRealThing655 49F
9558 posts
4/23/2006 2:11 pm

I'm so glad you had a great time. I love the way you articulate this whole thing. You know, I've never experienced anything like that but if I did it would want to be exactly like that....going through the same process you did before having sex. It just sounds very refreshing to hear, very open-minded, and yet also personal too.
I really enjoy reading all your posts, whether the jokes, everyday stories...and mostly how comfortable you both are with each other and your sexuality.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 4/24/2006 6:32 pm:
Thank you, R/T for your very kind and gracious words.

We are who we are, and we've attained that through constant communications with each other.

Some times they are funny...some times they're not...but they are real...completely forthright...and.....just us..!

We've both been in relationships and marriages before we met, and we've found in each other what works...where it didn't or wouldn't before. Guess you could say, we got it right, this time...with each other.

imLadyBambi 59M/51F

4/23/2006 2:47 pm

Well, Mr.Bambi and I aren't into swapping. But we see nothing wrong with it and we are so glad that you had a good time.

By the way, we enjoy your blogs!

Lady Bambi

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 4/24/2006 6:34 pm:
Thanks, Lady Bambi...for your sweet compliments!

firestarter665 44M/40F

4/23/2006 3:30 pm

Nice to hear a good time was had by all. I think that it refreshing to see that some don't kiss and tell.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 4/24/2006 6:37 pm:
Sweetie....you KNOW I know the meaning and etiquette of discretion..! Thank you for your positive comment. {=}

champagnechaser 42F
1639 posts
4/23/2006 3:47 pm

That's awesome! When and if i get married, this is the kind of relationship i would aspire to have.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 4/24/2006 6:39 pm:
Thanks, CC....and we hope that you find it..!

mycin62 56F

4/23/2006 9:11 pm

Ok, now I'm jealous! Sounds like you had a great time!!

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 4/24/2006 6:41 pm:
Now why would you be jealous, Cin.....? Enquiring minds want to know..!

49AK 56M
1823 posts
4/24/2006 1:12 pm

I am so glad to hear a success story...

I've had some good experiences, too... so I can't complain... but it is definitely a mixed bag...


pragmaticCTcpl replies on 4/24/2006 6:45 pm:
Thanks, 49AK....sounds like our batting average...but it's nice to be able to realize our goal....to have great sex with great people...and be friends, too..!

rm_DarknStar 55F
2823 posts
4/24/2006 8:31 pm

Happy to hear you had a Good Time!

Hope my first mfmf goes as good as yours did.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 4/25/2006 12:50 pm:
We'll keep our....*looks down at his lap*.....uh....fingers crossed for you, that it's a great experience..!

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