Is my life really a bitch or m I just bitching????  

poohpooh61 56F
136 posts
8/9/2006 5:36 pm

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1/14/2007 2:13 pm

Is my life really a bitch or m I just bitching????


2 nights ago i had the surprise of my life when i walked into the club and saw a dear fren whom i have not set my eyes on for close to 10 yrs... he looked good... came down to visit... well he is 62... but he is still so full of zest for life and his love - music. He had been through really tough times, which not many mortals could have lived through it all but he did and he has never bitched about it and accepted all as challenges thrown to him by God... gambling addict wife, lost job, huge debts to settle for wife, bro's suicide, cancer for both him and his wife....when i hugged him, i felt the strength of his arms and his love for all his friends here in asia, whom he had got to meet, possible for one last time....and yet he is ever so cheerful and reminiscing about the good old days with us over a beer or too.... still enjoy jamming....a smoke...and many laughs...
On my way home that very night, i felt very sad and cried... sad because this could be the last we will see each other... sad when i think of how a good man would have to face so many trials and tribulations.. and at the same time, when i think of all the time i went bitching about my own problems, which in comparison were really jus peanuts... i felt like a piece of pathetic shit.. and ought to be shot! My zest for life is not even half of his, oh what the fuck m i living for? People like him should live longer and better because they are always optimistic and look at the glass as half full and not empty.
And I should really stop bitching about what is missing in my life, and start to get a life!
Thank you my fren for coming here.... if only i could trade some of my life span and pass them on to um, i would gladly do so....

rm_stiffrod35 47M

8/9/2006 6:54 pm

I BELIEVE THAT SOMETIME GOD SEND PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES TO SHOW US HOW TO APPRECIATE LIFE. HE WAS A PRIME EXAMPLE FOR YOU. GOD SENT HIM TO SHOW YOU THAT IT COULD BE WORSE. SO JUST ENJOY LIFE TO THE FULLEST LIKE HE HAS. LIVE EACH DAY LIKE IT'S YOU LAST. DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE "PEANUTS".


rm_Blinded1969 40M
916 posts
8/10/2006 4:04 am

well what can i say?

good people die young, thats what everyone say...y coz in heaven everything is beautiful. They have suffered enuff in life so wh=en they go there.... is nothing but beautiful life waiting for em.

Cheer up babe....


fman400 45M
1 post
8/10/2006 5:29 am

thanks for sharing.. there's a saying, "you never get more than you can handle".. maybe everyone is at their own level, and some get given a tonne because they are the ones that can carry it.

yes.. it is great to be reminded how well off we are, and that really everything is OK


poohpooh61 replies on 8/10/2006 9:18 am:
and thank u for sharing too

dewey4chat_153 107F

12/21/2006 8:41 am

Pooh I agreed with stiffrod35.

Yeap, we human being never stopped bitch about everything we have till we really see those who are far more worst then us.

I have gone thru the hard life and I have gone thru the worst in my life but all this is nothing when I joined the Salvation Army or Red Cross Missionary. Only then I realised there are far worst and terrible life other human being had gone thru. When it compared with me...it put me to shame.

The only way we can help this ppl or your friend....is always treasure the good memories and learn from them. It help you along the way


NthDimensions 50M
177 posts
1/14/2007 1:09 pm

Life, is a personal experience.
You've got only one life.

It's not about how long you've lived,
it's about how you have lived.

It's not about reaching the end,
it's about experiencing the journey.

You have only 2 choices on this journey:
Choose to be Happy
Choose to be Unhappy

It's that simple.

Cheers!

*huggz*


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