Ranting and Raving Gets Their Attention  

poledancerandnut 54M/54F
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8/22/2006 6:39 am

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8/22/2006 8:32 am

Ranting and Raving Gets Their Attention

What he has said is totally true. I was in the chat room that night mad as all get out. I had met a few men and none of them had been the match AdultFriendFinder had predicted. I had come to the conclusion that I didn't belong on the site, didn't have the makeup for meeting men on a sex site and was about to hang it up. I was tired of getting emails from horny men, receiving pics of their poles and being expected to just give it up without so much as a phone call the next day. Nothing against anyone who can play the game...but I just couldn't do it. When I first opened the account for Poledancer1963 I was very lonely and felt I could just find a good pole to dance on occasionally and go on about my life as usual. I soon discovered that I was unable to do that, being the type of person who needs much more than that to sleep with a man. I realized I needed to be loved and cherished and made changes in my profile reflecting this. Immediately the emails slowed down as if I had a contagious disease. LOL. Afterall, the men on AdultFriendFinder don't want "strings", they just wanna get laid. There was one man who hounded me for a good, solid week, emailing me stories of fantasies that were supossedly about me and talking about how I seemed perfect for him. He seemed nice so I agreed to meet him at a local bar for a drink and the encounter went well. The days following our meeting he didn't respond to my emails and I didn't hear a peep out of him until finally I received an email explaining how he felt extreme guilt over considering actually cheating on his wife, taking time away from his kids and his job...he just didn't have time to devote to another woman in his life, ya-da-ya-da-ya-da. That was the last straw for me and I ended up in the chat room eating nails and spitting out tacks. One last "kiss my lily white ass" before I shut the damn thing down.
Then, as I ranted and raved someone I had never even seen on before started talking to me, just asking for one chance, claiming to be a 100 percent match! Being a bit on the edgy side, I was in no mood for BS and certainly not in the frame of mind to give anymore players a chance to mess with my head. He kept on trying though, insisting that he was for real and was the man of my dreams...
I would have never, in a million years, guessed just how true that was.


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