Dancers Are From Mars, Poles Are From Uranus  

poledancer1963 54F
9 posts
7/18/2006 8:00 am

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Dancers Are From Mars, Poles Are From Uranus


There's my million; another best seller. The never ending search for compatability between one man and one woman is as old as the planets themselves. One could ponder the question of physical attraction between two people for eternity and never reach a logical conclusion.
In many of the conversations I've had with men on the AdultFriendFinder site, men state that most of the women they meet here are not serious or not "real". Women I've spoken to complain that the men are only out for one thing - a piece of ass. Let's be honest here for a second and admit that your average woman on this site will never measure up to the fantasy woman most men are looking for and men are in truth just looking for a piece of ass.

Having said that, one goes back to question, "Why!" In my uneducated opinion, it is in the genes. In truth, the average woman in the U.S. wears a size 14. That's about 150lbs. Read any fashion magazine or smut rag and you will find very few women over a size 5. (Not to say that there aren't men who appreciate larger women, but they are few and far between.) As far as boobs go, very few of us actually possess those luscious orbs most men desire. So, we realize straight out of the gate that we probably won't measure up. In truth - there are only so many "beautiful people" in the world! Hell, even People Magazine can only come up with fifty each year! Factor in the behaviour that women are taught from childhood to be chaste and pure, but then are expected to be whores in bed and, well, it's easy to see why most of us do not seem "real". We can't afford to be. Men search on sites like AdultFriendFinder because these are women brave enough to put themselves out there admitting they are human and have needs. Most men want a woman to be a whore if it suits their needs but wouldn't give that very same woman the courtesy of a "hello" on the street in passing because they were brave enough to admit they wanted and needed sex; ie, a whore.

Men? Well, being from Uranus, they really do only want a piece of ass. Don't lie to yourself and say otherwise. It's the nature of the beast. Men are hunters. It's just their nature. (Now before you all blast me with flames, I will admit there are some men who are searching for more and I hope to find one someday.) A very wise man told me when I was very young...women make love with their heart and men make love with their head. (Usually the smaller, blood engorged one!) We as women don't creep into their heart as they do ours after that lust filled encounter. (That is, unless they think they can get it again.) Even then, it's not their heart we creep into - it's that small head. LOL.

So, considering all of this, and for the sake of fun let's just say it is true and not just the ramblings of some poor slobbette who's mind is constantly searching for unreachable answers. If dancers/women are really from Mars and Men/poles are really from Uranus, how are we supposed to find common ground? Women seem "unreal" and men come off as only wanting a piece of ass. We as women can't get to their hearts so in turn, don't allow them to get to our parts.

And yet, the cycle continues...

RocketMan_Len 53M
2325 posts
7/18/2006 9:02 am

That same question - "Why?" - has been running through my head as well. For the flipside of the cycle, see What are we Looking For

I don't look for the Hollywood idea of 'perfection' - partly because I don't meet it myself. In my mind, self-confidence is more appealing than how someone looks in a thong. The 'body-beautiful' types are good for fantasies... but I'm sure the reality wouldn't live up to it.


KunningLingual1 59M

7/19/2006 3:16 pm

Perhaps a minor oversimplification of us Uranusians, but too true much of the time, I suppose.

Anyway, my compliments on a great blog, poledancer. Interesting, well-written, introspecive without being maudlin, smart, funny...really a nice job! Maybe I'll get off my rump and come up with another entry for my blog.

Yum, a smart woman who is gorgeous, funny and has a strong sex drive!

Have fun!


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