playfulbunny82 32F
17 posts
9/9/2005 10:47 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I asked him, if he would ever cheat on me. And he said NO, and I was angering him by asking such a question. What he doesn't know is that I have the proof, and now I'm in the wrong for even mentioning the subject, I've never felt like a bigger piece of shit in my life. And the worst part, I still love him. We've been together for a year, and believe it or not it was my best relationship so far. (I've had some rotten thugs who do rotten things other than just cheating!!) And I don't want to give him up, but I'm on the edge and trust you don't wanna push me. I want to know should I confront him with my proof which is the exact words he used?

fuckme19792 38F

9/9/2005 12:31 pm

Confront doubt. Don't waste your time getting fucked over by some guy who supposedly "loves" you.

GiggleBite 58M

9/9/2005 12:55 pm

The actual posting of your problem shows that you know what you want to do about the whole scenario. Print whatever the `evidence` is, turn up, give him the paper & walk.The balls in HIS court then.

sweetest_sin_05 38M/38F

9/9/2005 1:02 pm

If he is angered by just you asking, how do you think he is going to react if you show him your proof? I would seriously consider having someone around when you do confront him. He should not be permitted to continue on cheating... if you let it go he will think it is ok. I am going through something similar with my significant other. We have been together for going on 5 years in November, and I found a card at his office from a girl. When I asked him about it repeatedly, he eventually said it was just kissing and friendship. I believed him, because he spun a massive web of lies and lied to this girl too... saying I was the psychotic ex and I wanted to hurt her etc. So she went along with it because she was scared. Then he continued to lie to me saying he wasn't seeing her, but he had been. They worked in the same building. Finally, he left his job and didn't contact her anymore and she showed up on our doorstep and told me everything. It was a nightmare, and still is most days. Best of luck to you, but above and beyond everything... keep yourself safe.

duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
9/11/2005 9:55 pm

If he is getting pissed because of the questions, to me that is a red flag. Listen to your gut feeing honey.


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