Men...How do you feel when...  

patsam69 52M/52F
704 posts
11/10/2005 6:37 am

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Men...How do you feel when...

Your woman opens her legs inviting you to lick and suck her warm sweet wet lips. To stick your tongue in and imbibe on her sweet juices. Are you happy, thrilled, grateful, excited beyond reason? Or is it just something else in your sexual menu. Nothing special just something you do.
I ask this because my husband absolutely LOVES to go down on me. He often tells me he gets lost ....loses track of time and anything in the world around him. Whenever he licks me, it is as if it is the first time. He gets so aroused. His breathing, his moaning all have a different tone than when we do other sexual things . absolutely YUMMY!!!

Now, we have a friend who will not go down on his wife. He thinks it is gross. This amazed many of us in our circle of friends. It really amazed my guy! So I am wondering what are the stats? Do most men like to do it? Is my hubby the odd one(if so...I LOVE the odd ones!) or is our friend?
What is your preference? have a great day!!

AltumHunksUnite 54M

11/10/2005 12:35 pm

Yeah, I really like to do that, but overall it's a quid pro quo activity with me. I'm willing to give it, but if I never get it back, I stop giving it altogether. Sometimes that gets their attention, and they proceed to give accordingly.

Let me drive. I like the view

expatbrit49 64M

11/10/2005 1:51 pm

Sam, Im just like your hubby, unless you grab me by the hair and pull me up I can just stay down there all day

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

patsam69 52M/52F

11/10/2005 7:52 pm

cleavis...what are you in high school? what happened to communication in a relationship?

smackyman 47M
3849 posts
11/10/2005 10:54 pm

expatbrit49 beat me to the punch with it! All day's so much fun for me...might even be an addiction..."Hello, my name is Smackyman and I'm a muff diver!"
Every woman reacts differently, tastes differently and likes it I'm grinning like a fool again!
Sammy - check 'My Blog' blah blahif you like - I came up with some suggestions. But they are pretty bad!! Don't say I didn't warn you...

hotiowastud2 54M

11/11/2005 3:53 am

I am harder than when she's got my cock in her mouth when I'm down on her. I learned to do it my Senior year in high school, just by trial and error with a couple girls. They obviously didn't know much either and we had a blast experimenting (as we weren't going to have intercourse).

rm_vixenflir 59M
295 posts
11/11/2005 5:49 am

Was 16 the first time I tasted - was a reciprocal experiment with the woman who some years later became my first wife. Could take it or leave it at that age, but by 18 was perfecting my 'style' and learning that some actually taste sweet......and some don't

Have come across several woman who had never had it done or nothing but a few licks (woman in their late 30's!), but after they layed still long enough to have an orgasm....never had another problem letting me play - its definatly on the forplay list in a big way for me.

CuntSlurpa 47M
131 posts
11/11/2005 10:31 am

I love going down on a woman, but strongly prefer her to be shaved (or at least well trimmed) so I don't get a mouthful of hair instead of something more yummy!

Your friend is very strange (in my opinion). Perhaps he should try giving his wife a good licking every night for a month and see if he still feels the same way.

abdoullah5 41M

11/12/2005 3:44 am

patsam salut qll beauté exceptionnelle! je crois q ma grosse queue tres tendue20 cm convient tres bien à ta bouche et à ta belle chatte tu me suces belle femme, j'adore et toi?

wantgemini 44F

11/12/2005 4:22 am

I must say that as a black woman my encounters with BLACK men have proven to be a bust! I'm not talking about the size (well,not in ALL cases) but their performance in oral sex. OH they want the pleasure of my skillful mouth guiding them through the sexual matrix but, when I lay down, they just wanna FUCK! I wasn't sure if it was because they were sooo turned on that they couldn't take it anymore or something else. I asked one of my frequent luvers if he would lick it for me, and he looked at me as if I offended him dearly! He told me HIS dick was too BIG to have to do that...then I they ALL think like that? I've had more white guys (and other races) BEG me to let them taste the chocolate covered cherry then I can count! I can only come up with 2 answers. 1)Black men aren't confident in THEIR skills to preform well so they don't try or 2) They REALLY do think their dicks are too big! This has been an issue for so long in my life that I can honestly say I'VE NEVER HAD AN ORGASAM THAT WAY!!!! Hell,it's only fine tunned MY head skillz!! So again I say U're lucky to have a man that is WILLING to give U the pleasures that EVERY woman deserves!

SillieBear 65M

11/12/2005 5:58 pm

Oh, I absolutely like to give it whether I get payback or not. If she isn't inclined to give me oral it would be nice for her to lick my nipples while I get myself off. I like some trimming down there(a neat little patch), but not completely shaved. I'm addicted. They are all such lovely blossoms! Put some honey on it and the Bear will go wild...

delandflsurfer 43M
2 posts
11/13/2005 10:55 am

without mutual oral there is nada

batterup469 50M

11/14/2005 6:37 am

Ha! There's nothing like the feeling of a woman squirming as you figure out what really get's to them. And then taking them all the way through an orgasm orally. As far as reciprication, that is something that is earned, so if you do it right, you'll get yours to. That kind of treatment to your lady should not be an option, it should be the rule. Lunch is a couple of hours away, but this has got me thinking I should meet my wife at home today for lunch.

patsam69 52M/52F

11/14/2005 10:15 am

wantgemini....Well, I have only been with 2 black did not lick me...I think...I was REALLY drunk...but he did fuck me...OUCH! It hurt...he was BIIIIIGGGG!!! The other did lick me and gave me very nice compliments about my pussy. BTW>>>He was NOT I think it may be a stereotype? But most of the men I know will do it...just dont know how much they like it! good luck in your search for the man who can get you off that waY!!

patsam69 52M/52F

11/14/2005 10:16 am you don't like it? I guess you don't enjoy it enough to do without the return favor?

horny4770 61M
8158 posts
11/15/2005 9:52 am

The taste, the smell, the delicate folds of female flesh, moving and quivering. Sometimes trying to get them to hold still. Nibbling, kissing, licking, swirling my tongue around and around, tugging ever so gently with my lips. The sudden gush when she climaxes, strong and sometimes almost bitter. What normal man wouldn't live for that? One of my most favorite things in the world. She doesn't need to invite, she has to be able to fight me off if she DOESN'T want it, and I'm not a small man! (no bruising so far LO Great Question!

kingvalhalla 34M
1 post
11/16/2005 1:00 am

Going down on a girls is the greatest thing to me, all the grils ive met like how i make them feel.

mikrocam 41M

11/17/2005 7:41 am

i love it... love to uswe mhy fingers and tongue together to tease and build until finally i end up with a mouthful... i had a partner who cant be touched after she came so it would always mean the end of the sex for a while, but, id carry on undeterred knowing it would mean nothing in return... but, didnt care, just loved to feel her coming, taste her when she came and hold her after... those who dont like, unlucky, your missing out!

rm_gent258 69M
486 posts
11/17/2005 12:46 pm

I love to go down on a woman who has a clean pussy. Eating my woman gives me a super hard-on.

ashyguy35 48M
6 posts
11/17/2005 6:08 pm

I have to say that going down on a women is the absolute best!!! I LOVE TO DO IT!!!! If she won't let me make her come that way at least once I feel like I've missed out on my favourite thing. I love to use both hands as well as my tongue and lips, damn, it makes me hot just to think about it. I also love to use my hands on her whilst I am inside her.


LustNTranslation 64M

11/17/2005 9:00 pm

I used to be ambivalent about it but now I'm all in favor.

I have to admit that when I was going down on someone, even though I'd be enjoying it and she apparently would be too, I didn't REALLY know EXACTLY what I was doing. So I bought a great book that explains it all. Late in life I know, but today, 50 is the new 40. This particular book is The Lowdown On Going Down, by Marcy Michaels and Marie DeSalle. (The same authors write a book aimed at women, called Blow Him Away.)

One of the many good things about this book is that it shows you a lot of exercises to strengthen the tongue, lips, and jaw.

The book really made me a convert, to the point that now I almost see my tongue as my main sex organ. Not because I ever expect to ejaculate out of it, but because in terms of pleasing a woman, it's way more versatile and reliable than any other organ I've got. I can do more things with it, it won't fail me if I'm tired or worried, and when I'm 80 or so I should still be good to go. (Of course, by then women will need a blindfold to spare them the need to look at the rest of my Tutankhamen-like near-dessicated body, but that's another story.)

I'll just give one short excerpt that introduces the final chapter, "Techniques to Wake Up the Neighborhood": ... At this point, you are equipped with all the skills you need to become a master of the art. But if you truly want to drive your woman into la folie - mad fits of joy that can barely be described by any human language - try employing some of these more advanced techniques.

patsam69 52M/52F

11/21/2005 4:22 am

Lustntranslation.....good for you! It is never too late to lear n a new trick or two. I am glad you are enjoying your self! sam

iwannabenaked2 70M
1 post
11/22/2005 6:58 pm

I love it. It is the most effective foreplay I know. My favorite thing on this planet is to have my hands aroung her waist and having her cum on my tongue. Folks, it just doesn't get any better than that, and the following sex is to die for...

bear77344 62M
103 posts
11/23/2005 3:39 am

I love to go down on a woman, doesn't matter if she reciprocates or not. It really turns me on.

rm_pretty4u22 53F
2 posts
11/23/2005 8:48 am

Patsam, i jus love it. my man gets down on me like no body's business. he just loves to lick my pussy. the more he licks it the more it drips. It is a feeling that you cannot compare with any other.

He loves it just much as i do.
I love it also when he asks 'Do you want me to suck you? i am wet already

I say Lick it baby, lick it. afer you will fuck me hard until I scream fo more.

whatislove1000 43M

11/25/2005 7:20 pm

Yes definitly you should go down on your female friends, shouldn't they get the same sensation that a man gets from a blowjob. If you can't return the favour, I mean for me it's a definite turn on. I enjoy giving oral just as much as she does recieveing it. I don't think its gross at all, it's got to be the best part sex. For the guys that aren't doing it, your missing out.

JudeL5 47M  
1596 posts
11/28/2005 11:55 pm

I love going down, and opening up your legs to say "come on in" just gets my juices going even more. All night......!

justfunnin69 55M
4 posts
12/1/2005 11:40 pm

Oh Yea !!! I LOVE to lick,suck,and finger her Pussy !! I like it so much that she has to beg me to come up and Fuck her. If not I'll just make her cum all over my face, and I like that so much YUMMY, YUMMY, I have even let myself go,CUM, right there while she is cumming in my face !! Then I just lick some more till I'm hard enough to slide it in and fuck her till we both cum again !! And I even had those that seen how much I enjoyed ther juices, so while we are fucking they would feed me pussy juice with there fingers, yuuummmmmyyy !

missy973 49F

12/3/2005 9:38 pm

I have said it before: my husband would never go down on me. At first I saw scared. Then when I was brave and wanted it he never bothered. (Yes, I bathed. This is always the question I get after I say this. I would always be clean first.) But I gave him enough blow jobs to send him to the moon and back. The times I was pregnant and didn't feel like sex I would take care of him with blow jobs. So not only did I not get oral, I would go without sex too, and be the giver for months and months.

Well, I am divorcing him anyway. Since then I have had several partners want to go down on me. I let them, but it never does anything for me. I wonder if I just haven't been trained right. I feel I am missing out terribly, because I don't orgasm during sex either. Basically I dont orgasm at all unless I masturbate, and no I can't/don't masturbate during sex during sex either. (Toy won't fit, I have tried.) Oral seems the best thing to "master" so to speak. But I HATE having session after session with no results. I feel like I am wasting both his and my time. I don't fake it either. No sure what to do about this besides find someone understanding who is willing to spend lots and lots of time on me. I get judged enough for not coming during sex....

rm_images54 58M
1 post
12/5/2005 2:11 pm

Well, I never pass up an opportunity to taste and embrace a nice warm pussy. I could stay there for hours on end and find it so gratifying. I love to feel even the slightest of movements or spasms as I lick, tongue, and suck on it. Anyone not getting it in Spring Hill or closeby, please email me at AdultFriendFinder
I would rush to oblige you and show you the way to a sure fire orgasm.

alacran2847 68M
10 posts
12/6/2005 9:43 pm

I love going down on women. Want to bring you off a couple of time before we do anyting else. Never get tired of tasting you. Want to taste you after we fuck.
I read where some women can't take that much.
Looking for ones that like it & want more.

patsam69 52M/52F

12/7/2005 3:50 pm

Missy...good for you for not faking it! You are only cheating yourself if you do...and faking only makes men think that women orgasm so easily! I too do not come with sex. I can with a nice hand or tongue massage to my clit, but not with penetration. Perhaps your brain has been trained to only respond to your own touch....what if you did without masturbating for a while? You should not be judged for not coming during sex....I have talked to so many men that think women always come during sex. I ask do you know?? I can tell they say, insulted. Yeah right! they were faking I say. or they didnt come and you think they did. I never got any complaints they say....well...women are too nice...I respond. HMMMM...I wonder why no men want to chat with me anymore??? LOL. Good luck in your quest will find the right man someday!

smackyman 47M
3849 posts
12/15/2005 9:50 pm

Oh come on now Sammy - I'll chat with you any time! Maybe more if you play your cards right. *cheesy wink*
How have things been for the last month Sam? You've been slacking off in the blog department. I hope that you are just far to busy (in a fun way) to update your blog...*smile*

Fl_guy_looking 62M
6 posts
12/18/2005 12:00 pm

I have gone out with girls that will not let me go down on them 2whats up with that ? Its the best way to start your morning or evening or just a good snack.

Choozmi 51M

12/29/2005 4:36 am

I enjoy oral sex most when I really feel deep affection and even love for a woman. Because it's not about mutual stimulation (unlike, say, intercourse) but rather is about me pleasing her, I get to concentrate on expressing myself and my feelings for her through my tongue and my movements. It's my little gift to her, one that I'm delighted to give.

If she has an orgasm, that's even better (and then I'm reminded of how lucky women are to be able to have multiple orgasms).

reverend21 51M
1913 posts
1/12/2006 4:02 pm

I love oral sex, not only do I enjoy it for me, but it just arouses me tremendously to bring her such pleasure.

GlensAzothGhats 56M
6 posts
1/19/2006 6:31 pm

Your man is very normal. I'm the same as him when I get my head between a womans legs, I love licking/sucking a female so much that I lose track of time also.

lookingnbville 60M

1/19/2006 8:01 pm

I will do it whether or not she returns the favor or not. I love to eat pussy and can do it for as long as the woman can stand it..... Have even been known to go back to eating after fucking.....and no...I am not BI.

rm_1hotwahine 64F
21091 posts
3/6/2006 3:46 pm

I just came over to say I miss your blog.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

CantonOhCouple 61M/61F
553 posts
3/6/2006 6:31 pm

Never met a guy that didn't LOVE IT!!!

smackyman 47M
3849 posts
3/9/2006 12:34 am

Yeah Sammy - I'm missing you around here as well...when can you come out and play in your blog?

Konacrew 65M/64F

3/13/2006 10:53 am

Show me a man that does not go down on his woman and I will show you an unhappy lady that is going to look somewhere else. I know my wife gets off the most by oral sex and then I complete it by inserting my big cock into her and grinding away on her to continue that clit stimulation. She love oral stimulation by another (M or F) while having intercourse with a male. That is when that third person comes in handy. Any woman will tell you that it is the ultimate turn-on to come with an inserted cock in her while being stimulated by a tough on her clit. Yes, any real lover will tell you that when he goes down on a woman and she comes all over his face that it is a turn on also. I know that I get so hard afterwards that I am ready for part two, hard heavy fucking. So if your friend dosen't get with the program, his woman will look elsewhere and he will be left in the cold.

ckarla1 60M/51F

4/30/2006 2:21 pm

i love a sweet pussy women do need to douce once in awhile thou

SirMounts 103M

5/8/2006 3:39 am

My, that must be one long oral time you're having. *winking*

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