love vrs lust  

owlish555 50M
5 posts
8/4/2005 8:09 am

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love vrs lust

The sex is gone but the feelings are there, is it really cheating to satisfy your needs when those needs are not being meet.

slutseekssex 49F
1 post
8/4/2005 8:47 am

i don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to satisfy your needs. Sometimes we can love someone, but they don't meet all our needs-thats life

Tony5014 52M
17 posts
8/4/2005 11:37 am

I feel the same way and well if something is missing and you have tried and tried and can' t get it back why not look elsewhere

rm_Bimom26 38F
2 posts
8/4/2005 12:48 pm


Are you still in love with each other? Being in love is different than loving each other.

As for satisfying your needs. I find no reason not to try different things.


lookinginsac69 67M/57F

8/4/2005 5:08 pm

I didn't think Pat, my wife of 28 years, and I ever hit the point you are refering too here. The reason is we didn't allow it to happen. Early in our relationship i realized that I wanted for her to have as exciting sexlife as I wanted so we talked about "other" stimuli. Role-playing, sex in places you've never dared try before, talking about other sexually. You know thee < would you fuck him" routinre while driving down the street. I even set up a gang-bang for her, I knew that this was beyond her wildest fantasay, she froze up for about 15 seconds, then relaxed and got fucked by 6 guys and 2 girls, oh and me. If you are ever lucky enought to be so certain of your "other-half" that you feel no jealousy or fear of loosing your partner and can get into the "lifestyle" with the correct group, All will be jsut fine and your sex life just keeps getting better.

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