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onebuffguy 47M
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3/5/2006 4:21 pm

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Well, my Gold Membership recently came due and I decided not to renew. I need a little break right now. The emails I'm getting have become rather tedious with the same questions, so here's my advice when e-mailing someone:
1. Read his/her profile carefully. 99% of all the questions I get can be answered by looking at my profile.
2. If he/she doesn't respond, don't send more e-mails.
3. Don't be rude. If you are turned down, thank him/her for their time and move on.
4. Don't cut/paste/send the same e-mail to many members. Some people on AdultFriendFinder have multiple profiles to catch others doing this.
5. Make every e-mail unique.
6. Don't send explicit pictures. It's much nicer to establish some type of relationship before a nude pic exchange. Even better, wait until sex.
7. Ask for and get permission before adding someone to your hotlist.
8. Be a gentleman/lady. It's pretty obvious what type of website this is and most of us are here for the same reasons, but that doesn't mean we can't all behave respectfully.
9. If he/she isn't a match, don't send an e-mail thinking you're going to change his/her mind. I.e., if you're not the type of man/woman another member is looking for, then respect their preferences. One of my lesbian friends on this website gets all kinds of e-mails from guys even though her profile specifically states NO MEN!
10. Not interested means not interested - period.
Anyhow, I'm not sure if and when I'll renew my Gold Membership, but for now, I am very satisfied with the ladies I have met here and want to explore these relationships further. Best wishes and good luck to everyone!

rm_Ladyt53 65F
122 posts
3/5/2006 5:11 pm

Your blog was very well written; I’ve expressed the same thing on several occasions without much luck I must say, I finally closed my profile, but remain on the site just to blog.

Best wishes to you too!

UltimateFunWU 53F

3/13/2006 5:13 am

May I have your permission to copy and paste your suggestions to put on my blog? lol
Can't agree more with what you have said in here.
Well onebuffguy, good luck and have fun with THOSE LADIES that you have found on this site!


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