What the hell..  

oh_yum 34F
11 posts
7/21/2006 5:46 am

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7/28/2006 2:00 pm

What the hell..

Ok.. have u ever heard of anyone that has never had an orgasm. hum.. me I've never had an orgasm with a man. That is weird. I just need some advice, I've tried positions .. never toys though. Maybe that is what I'll need. Although I haven't had sex since Feb.. what is a gal to do??

dionysius7777 48M
4 posts
7/21/2006 5:30 pm

Toys are a good thing, believe me. I've had women who have told me that they've never orgasmed, or didn't orgasm easily, and they cum like a rocket with a combo of toys and dick! Find the right person, the right toy!

Edge357 53M
389 posts
7/22/2006 8:58 am

Oh yum, oh . . .

You are very interesting. And you are unusually brave to admit the orgasm thing -- but your experience may be too limited to actually consider yourself with a "problem" really. MANY young women go through their 20's NOT HAVING ORGASMS DURING SEX . . . they just don't SAY so. Part of the problem is that these 20-something women are having sex with guys in their 20's who have NO CLUE how to give a woman complete satisfaction. (As you point out so well in your other post). So you have to make up your mind what you want to experience, I guess.

There's also the incredible rush of hormones that kicks a woman's sex drive into high gear at around age 30 and later -- and you aren't there yet. But it is something to look forward to -- for many, that is when orgasms start to really HAPPEN. (Of course, that is when older men HAPPEN for them, as well).

Do not be impatient. Do not be driven to extremes because of what you think others are "having." Porn movie orgasms showing young women thrashing about are 99% faked, and your friends will rarely admit that they rarely have a lover who does it for them on the spot.

And is an orgasm at the hands of an experienced lover everything it's cracked up to be ?
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dimplesfouryou 47F
24690 posts
7/24/2006 12:06 pm

Edge is, as usual, right on! I spent most of my twenties wondering what was wrong with me for not having orgasims with my guys. I should have been clued in, because I can get off wonderfully with toys, so it was not me! Edge is right, you still haven't found a guy who can do it for you. I also recommnend buying some toys that interest you and learning exactly what turns you on and teaching that to the men you meet. Trust me, you are doing him and his next girl a huge favor! And seriously, wait until your 30's...three words...OMG! Hang in there!


unionman74 43M

7/28/2006 4:52 am

Toys are always fun but some guys get intimidated by them, no idea why. In my mind, getting the woman off is what all men should be about, make the woman happy and she will do the same for you so if she needs toys for that, every guy should be more than willing to use them on you, if not, find another guy who will

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