What I did on my holidays...  

nzgentleman 49M
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4/24/2006 4:42 am

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4/26/2006 1:51 am

What I did on my holidays...

Well, it's not that original a title I know, but my previous experience in creative writing is about the length of this sentence.

I've noticed a lot of people asking if anybody is sincere on this site, and thought I'd post my thoughts on that topic. I have to say I wonder sometimes as well. However, you know those letters to Penthouse that begin "Dear Penthouse, I never used to believe your letters, until one day ...."?

I've been playing in this scene for about 4 years, off and on depending on my relationship status. I went to a gangbang on Saturday night, and I've been to a few over the last couple of years. I have also played with some couples as well. Making contacts is not easy of your a single guy. Following them through is even harder when you first start.

I'd just like to encourage one and all to continue pursuing their fantasies. I'd also encourage you sincere people to develop strategies for eliminating the dreamers and time-wasters as quickly as possible, as this will save all concerned. My personal favourite technique is to ask for a phone conversation fairly early on, even before photos. It's understandable that sincere people want to guard their anonymity, however credibility also has to be established. For all you nervous people, bear in mind this is only the first step in a process of getting to recreational sex, is totally safe and obligation-free, so no one should be scared of it.

Well that's the end of my first off-the-cuff ramble, and I hope it has been either useful or at least not boring.

Happy playing and adventures,

n0tatalker 40M

4/24/2006 5:46 am

WeLcOmE Too thE bLoGs!

VATraveler1948 69M

4/24/2006 5:52 am

Nice start for your creative writing career! There are lots of phoneys here and lots of real good people and maybe even a few of the phoneys who are actually good people just trying to break out of their phonyness.

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