Is there such a thing as being TOO sexually aggressive in women?  

notynnice4u 58F
52 posts
6/9/2006 9:24 am

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6/19/2006 5:45 pm

Is there such a thing as being TOO sexually aggressive in women?

C'mon, it's 2006, the days of "Leave It To Beaver" and "Happy Days" are long gone. But, has the mindset of men changed any? Do you prefer the timid little mouse or the lioness who knows what she wants?

I was with a man, not too long ago, and I'll admit, it had been awhile since I had "got sum" and I was just the right amount of buzzed. We ended up in the bedroom, and I was really reved up, and I guess I took alittle TOO much control of situation. I wanted to suck and be fucked. PERIOD! I guess that I "freaked him out", with my desires and he didn't know how to respond. The word he used was "intimidating".

So, my question is....Do men STILL prefer to be the aggressor when it comes to sex? Do women who take charge scare you?

dreamswyou 52M

6/9/2006 9:52 am

ohhhhhhhh my god!!!!! I love a woman to take charge and get wild on me!!!!!!!

One time after a date with a girl we were standing in the breezeway of her apartment complex. Suddenly she pinned me to the wall and attacked me ummmmmmmmmm! Anyway little did she realize is that she pinned me against all the buzzers for the apartments and people were coming to answer the door and when they saw us they just walked away REAL silent like. We just laughed and that made us even more wild. GOD!!!! She had total control and I loved it!!!!!!!!!

tugger10 60M
247 posts
6/10/2006 8:42 am


notynnice4u 58F

6/12/2006 12:37 pm

Thanks guys, for the "peek" inside your brains, didn't know if I should turn it down a notch or two. Sometimes, Noty just takes over, and Nice just goes away....But that is my philosophy, when it comes to sex....just go with the feeling, get LOST in it, and shut the mind down for the time being. Sex is ALL about the feeling...

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