On the Subject of Guys.....  

noordinarychic2 49F
510 posts
6/3/2006 6:12 am

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6/4/2006 7:50 am

On the Subject of Guys.....


So last night, after one hellacious day that caused a few gray hairs --redheads don't gray??? wth???? ---anyway i had grand plans to come home, take a well deserved bubble bath and alas do homework....Needless to say that adorable best friend of mine had other ideas! (let me just interject that she DIDN'T work !) she sends me a text at oh 9;30...." So what are we doing???".....well I call her back, she says get your dancing boots on, grab your id (just in case the "i know your over 21 but I'm a jackass bouncer is outfront) and I'll pick u up in 15! Now that in itself is comical...NOC2 get ready for a night out in 15 minutes!?!? Well I did and if I do say so myself...looked mighty damn cute!!!! Hey it was a good hair night!!! LOL..... Anyway......So my question is ....what is with the guys (and a few girls) but mostly guys who stand around the perimeter of the dance floor or around the bar or just around in general for the entire evening? They don't dance, they don't mingle -- except with each other -- and they don't move --except to go get another drink. What is that about? Why do you come to a club to stand around??? What's the point? Now I can see if you came out to meet someone to take home and fuck but doesn't that require that you actually open your mouth? And you may not think you can dance but hell....everyone's drunk...who cares if you look like a ragdoll with arms or a robot with none!!! Anyway.....I just really noticed it last night. I guess to me it really isn't all that fun to just go to a bar and stand around.....who cares if your by yourself or if you have no rhythm.....just have fun.....(and this is purely a guess on my part but by the looks on some of their faces --the standing around thing...wasn't all that fun!) Enlighten me someone!! Please!!!
It seems like a waste of a cover charge!! oh and btw...just a note on girls who forget to look in the mirror before they go out....if your not a size 3....do NOT try to squeeze into a belly shirt and a mini skirt....ick!! it is not sexy, it is not a turn on....kudos to these chics for getting out on the dance floor and shaking it (literally) but come on.... .....boy NOC2 is on a bit of a "bitch-a thon" this am...LOL......oh well...come on cut me some slack....can't be sweet all of the time.... lol.....but damn I try!!! Hope everyone is having a great weekend....and guys...next time you go out...do me a huge favor.....dance....do not stand around and stare.....dance! We won't bite.....promise..... Hugs and smiles and all things good..... NOC2

pet_humility 49F

6/3/2006 7:05 am

I have to agree with you on the part about chicks trying to wear something that their little sister should be. Christ almighty its not sexy. All you see is that belly roll. It might not be big, but by the time they squeeze a size 2 around a size 4 waist.. well things shift..LOL


ShaneLiveLife 51M

6/3/2006 8:04 am

It's nice to here the story from the other side !

I spent the last couple of months in Barcelona visiting the city's "coolest" clubs ......... amongst other things ....

.... just before you wonder, we did do some dancing as well ! ...

......... but youré right it wasn't fun standing around .... at all !

Perhaps a selection of situations we faced will shed light on some men's actions:

1. What did you say ?, I can't hear a damn thing, lets move somewhere quieter, hey the bar is just over there ? .... and they serve cold beer

2. Look over there ! .... they look really horny/sexy/hot/pretty - lets chat to them ..... move to women and think (insecurity stepping in) about dancing. Cue the sudden appearance of one or more drunk/confident players, and then more, ... players viewed as only after one thing/assholes etc., insecurity now turns into frustration and general anger that any women should fall for such assholes ... let's move on ....

3. Standing at the side of the dance floor and two attractive women move themselves in front of us for kissing and sexy dancing routine - now we are talking ! In less time than it takes to say that, at least half the men in the room have spotted them and take turns at trying to win them over (you have to admire men’s inability to accept reality) .... for a while it is funny just to see them try but then we realise that this is just a power thing and the two women only want to "control" the men around them (not us of course) .... cue another move ......

4. After several similar instances and now in a less than receptive mood we decide to just stand around on the sidelines and try to make conversation with ourselves (but note point 1) ..... cue the appearance of a succession of women that start dancing in front of us and look really cute - cute being the operative word since we are not sure how they even managed to get into the club ..... mind you we really admired their self confidence and optimism ....

5. After reaching an appropriate alcohol level we think "fuck it, lets dance anyway" so we squeeze into the arena and try to make some motion similar to dancing whilst our eardrums are assaulted to the point of pain .....

6. The end of the night approaches (6.00 in the morning), and we are all deaf, knackered and poor. Conversation goes something like "you know I never did like cattle markets, me neither .... why the hell did we come here ?, not sure but there must be easier ways to meet women !, yer, must be .... “

The only time I have enjoyed going to clubs is when I have already met someone and take them along .... then it is fun with a big F .... just to see the envy on the men’s faces standing on the sidelines and the players feeble attempts to take over .....

Live with passion !


out_for_a_ride 36M

6/4/2006 1:58 am

what i don't get, is who convinces these broads to wear something they can't even fit in to...no woman wears something to repulse a guy, so what guys are telling these women they look good when their clothes make'm look like a python is tryin to put the squeeze of death on'em? this is more than unattractive...this is grotesquely confusing


noordinarychic2 49F
242 posts
6/4/2006 7:50 am

out for a ride -- somehow these girls think that fashion overrides common sense and i'm assuming the guys that are telling them they look good....are drunk....like three shots and five drinks drunk !!!! hey i've been overweight......you look a lot smaller if you dress your size not your girlfriends....lol....


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