What's all the bitchin about?  

nodrama1958 61M/59F
7 posts
6/5/2006 4:40 am

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6/5/2006 6:41 pm

What's all the bitchin about?

Hi All!
I'm sorry I've ignored my blog. I've been wrapped up in other peoples blogs and ignored my own. I see so much that is written from people saying no one on this site is "real" and everyone lies, etc, etc, etc. They must be going about it all the wrong way. I know everyone has their own specific interest in mind (and should) but we have been very happy with the new people we have met. I think it is a great group! All it takes is honesty and a good heart and it comes through in the writing. We have a couple of good meetings arranged and are really looking forward to it. They are all people with similar interests and goals. If you are one of the ones "bitchin" I would like to add my opinion - just start by reading the profile (I mean REALLY reading the profile) Is this a person you like so far? We have even had a lot of success with profiles without pictures. It is the basics of the personalities that comes out in the profile. (The pictures will come later) Then make the contact. If they think it is a good match too, they will contact you back. If not, don't let it bother you - just move on. There are so many good people out there don't put all your efforts in one person. It will take quite a few contacts before you find one that sparks your interest. I hear so much from single guys that the playing field is way out of line as far as guys and girls are concerned. I really think you would do better if your photo was not "dick in hand". It is all too mundane. Let her get to know you first and she won't be able to wait to see it! We all know you have one and are proud of it but that is not how a girl wants to meet you. If you were in a bar and wanted to meet a girl, you wouldn't walk over to her and pull it out and wave it in her face, would you? Of course not - same here on the site. Girls would rather get to meet a face and a personality before they are going to consider much of anything else. However, someone for you is out there. Just keep up the effort. It's worth every minute! I wish you the best of luck in your search....Love Ya!

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
6/5/2006 5:55 am

HOW TRUE! I hate penis pictures and would rather see tummies and eyes!!!!

Purry {=}


alchemistz9 58M

6/5/2006 6:24 am

Aawwww! I'm hurt. And torn! I agree about the people - I haven't met up with anyone from the site yet, but I've chatted, and emailed, and exchanged posts and don't think I'm totally naieve and I've really enjoyed the contacts I've had.

But, c'mon. Lighten up on the pics. While it's true I wouldn't go waving it in anyone's face in a bar, neither would I expect the person I'm meeting to present as they appear on site - and I think my pic is mild.

Purry, I'll put up a pic of my tummy - anything for you!

florallei 100F

6/5/2006 1:52 pm

It is quite apparent that many are in here just for the sexual encounters and are not ashamed or hide that fact and that's just great! These are the ones that usually have a picture of their penis staring at you. Don't get me wrong I'm no prude. I love sex however I love intimacy as well. When I look at a profile with a penis picture, I for one do not check out their profile unless they have emailed me as a show of courtesy.
Most of the responses that has captured my interest have been the ones with no picture but their responses has been thoughtful, respectful and passionately written and yes they also clearly state they would like sex but their approach is much gentler and provocative.
When an email arrives at my mailbox (the profile with no picture) sends a picture of themselves(Face). It is a far more attractive and an inticing greeting. Pictures really do tell a lot about a person. The eyes can reflect if they are a happy or serious or sad or content and so forth. The way the nose flares denotes a certain flirtatiousness. The mouth can portray some sensousness and who can neglect the hair if there are any. I can imagine stroking it gently with my fingers. Uhmmm...
I am not judging anyone who shows the pictures of their Penises, I am just saying you can connect with some pretty classy women if you showed the upper part and when you have her intrigued she will desire to know and see the lower part.

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