Why men die first  

nightstalker172 38M
1646 posts
4/7/2006 10:14 am

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Why men die first

Because women drive us insane and eventually to death j/k...I was reading [post 300887] by


It got me thinking about women and the communication barrier that seems to be evident between men and women in general. As Ive said before women are ruled by emotions and men are ruled by logic. Of course there are always exceptions to every rule but this seems to be the gist of things. As stated in the post above...When we ask whats wrong we get the "nothing" answer. When we ask what WE did wrong. We get the "Well if you dont know Im not going to tell you"

Do you ladies realize how much these kind of things piss us off. I mean does no one see the hypocrisy in it? All the time you ask us. "what are you thinking?" "Why dont you share your feelings with me ever?" and etc etc...BUT will turn around and play mind games like the one above. I mean seriously what the hells wrong with you. Oh wait I know I know....because if we dont know whats wrong then we dont really know YOU...The problem is men...or should I say humans have not developed telepathy just yet...We are still alittle behind on that.

So to help bridge the gap...just say whats bothering you..dont drive us crazy...seriously...We dont read minds we are a simple folk. We see a problem we take care of it...but if we dont see a problem...but know there is one...we just sit with our engine running and no one to step on the gas to go anywhere....Now I dont hate women....just their habits

dasher121 37M

4/7/2006 12:39 pm

exactly dude! they claim that we are stupid and slow.

yet they put us in highly complex situations that we are sure to fail.

popmuse01 36F

4/7/2006 3:38 pm

I am agreeing also...no one else knows what I want and feel and desire more than ME lol...so why should I expect someone else to automatically know? And actually I never understood myself why women think they can pull that crap anyways...it's like asking a cat to speak english!

The only time I have to reply to a what's wrong question with an I don't know or nothing, is when I truely don't know what's wrong. And I refuse to go to bed angry...I'd rather get the problem out in the open asap and get it solved!

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NickRules999 40M
9464 posts
4/7/2006 4:34 pm

I totally agree, pal.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

powerbella 44F

4/7/2006 11:30 pm

True words!!! I guess it boils down to just self honesty at the end of the day. Women also uses this as a way to manipulate a man...the guessing game. But then it goes with a brave spirit and soul to be honest at all times, one of the things I firmly believe is to speak the truth in love and NEVER ever go to bed with a heavy heart towards the people you love. Some women must just realise that men is also human, they also feel uncomfortable and that seeing that your partner is bothered by something is not only a woman-thing!! Open communication would make relationships in general just SO much easier. It is walking next to someone and not playing hide and seek all the time. Great posting! May all those "sleeping beaties" out there wake up to the realness of men...they have emotions too, they feel too, they love too, they do get confused as well and when they ask a direct question trust them enough to be honest and say what is true.

curious082385 32F
4925 posts
4/8/2006 1:22 pm

Personally, I agree with you. I never say the point of playing those games. I have to admit that I will do the "nothing" answer every so often, but only when I it's something that I don't want to talk about. If something is wrong that I want to talk about, I will or I will tell you straight off when you ask.
Never pulled the, "well, if you don't know I'm not gonna tell you" line though. That's just stupid. It's only going to lead to both you and me getting angry and frustrated.

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