10/4/05 -- Day three  

nicholasfinney 53M
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10/4/2005 6:16 am

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10/4/05 -- Day three

The learning curve is steep and treacherous here at AdultFriendFinder. I wrote such a stupid email to one woman. She was nice enough to write back and say, "Uh, hello? Waaaay over the top, buster." (Sorry, C.) My harmless intent being that she said she liked "take charge" guys. I guess I thought that meant juvenile and loud. One learns, doesn't one.

Also, I feel that perhaps there should be a disclaimer given prior to payment, stating that "this takes far more time and energy than you can imagine. Caveat emptor." But why shouldn't it? My experience is that no matter how you go about it, romance and/or getting laid takes a lot of time and energy. I think my new motto is going to be "Festina Lente"--hurry, slowly. That's a good motto for life in general, and sex specifically, don't you think?

Things are picking up a bit compared to yesterday, but disappointly slow. I was hoping for an avalanche of love (or at least a tsunami of sex. I've gotten neither). Early insights include: there are a lot more men here, therefore its a bear market; it's relatively pre-feminist (i.e. a bit Ward and June Cleaver--guys do the heavy lifting. Which is unfortunate, as I like a woman who knows what she wants and goes for it), it's kind of fun. But I could see that lasting only so long. We'll see.

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