niceguy3886 47M
6 posts
4/17/2006 8:25 pm

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4/21/2006 2:23 pm


So does anyone have any advice for a newbie single male swinger? I have been on this site for three months now, and I have done better than I ever thought I would do. So how does one take it to the next level, besides being a woman or being a super model? I seen males involved in couple situations and groups, and I thought that I am beter looking and in better shape. A friend sent me some reading material on swinging, and particulary on single males. It was very helpfull, after reading that I think I may have fucked up a pontential meeting with a couple. This lifestyle is very confusing, there is more etiquette here than at the U.N. All these rules like I have to talk to the male, even though the female contacts me. What is my role in the encounter? Yada, yada, ya. I know people here have rules, and so they should, but couldn't you just say that I've commited a fouxpa. One can't learn from their mistakes, unless they are told.

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
4/17/2006 11:53 pm

a belated welcome to the blogz....

and good luck in your search....

demonicsexkitten 42F
10688 posts
4/18/2006 2:06 am

welcome to the blogs.

as for "rules"??? i don't know a thing about rules. just general rules of courtesy. i think all couples would have their own ideas of how to go about doing things. but if they are on here as a couple... then both parties would most likely want to know what's going on. and if it's a group thing, then of course they both need to know. maybe the male half is just wanting to make sure you're on the up and up. or maybe same thing but he's a dom and she's sub? no idea. just rambling now

best of luck.

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