Where are the people at?  

nice14u03 38M   
13 posts
5/27/2006 5:25 am

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Where are the people at?


I have tried with the standard, silver and now gold membership and either no one is interested or no one is real. Does anyone have any insight as to what it is I am doing wrong, or is there no one even here to really read this???

DanaeKC 45F
608 posts
5/27/2006 6:11 am

In reverse order --

You're net is too wide:
Looking For: Women, Couples (man and woman), Groups or Couples (2 women) for Erotic Chat or Email, 1-on-1 sex, Discreet Relationship, Group sex (3 or more!), Bondage & Discipline, Cross-Dressing, Exhibitionism/Voyeurism, Sadism & Masochism, Misc. Fetishes or Other "Alternative" Activities

It makes it look like you don't really know what you want. Are you sure you want all of those things? Narrow it down.

Your profile is too short
Profile for nice14u03
I have been on here for quite a while and it seems as if no one is for real. If you are intersted in meeting someone for real, please contact me. I would love to chat with you and I will make you very happy. Satisfaction Guaranteed.

My Ideal Person:
I am lookin 4 someone who wants to be found.
If that is you please respond.

It's actually kind of nice; you're not describing an impossible dream, or a strait-jacket of desires. But again, it reads like you're not really sure what you want and will take anything... which isn't true, right?

But the biggest problem you face is

Sexual Orientation: prefer not to say
Marital Status: prefer not to say


Either one of those by themselves raises an alarm bell (he's married isn't he, he's bisexual isn't he).. but putting them together is the equivalent of giving yourself a strong dose of the clap AND leprosy. (he's married, he's bisexual, he's dishonest to his wife, he's dishonest to his male lovers, he probably doesn't use protection, just nasty -- and not in the good way).

Perhaps things will pick up if you update your profile to give your sexual orientation and your marital status. That way, it doesn't look like you have something to hide.

It's also ok to be specific about what you desire, as well. Like say, you'd prefer to only chat with or meet married women, or single women, or persons without children, or other married bisexual men.

I hope this helps a little bit.


Rubenesquelady5 46F
99 posts
5/27/2006 6:23 am

Well sweetie, your profile needs some work. You get what you give out. If radiate positive thoughts, you attract positive energy and vice versa.

I took the liberty of looking at your profile and decided to comment on it, hopefully to give you some ideas on how to improve, from a female perspective? If you don't like it, you can delete my comments.

Profile
I have been on here for quite a while and it seems as if no one is for real. If you are intersted in meeting someone for real, please contact me. I would love to chat with you and I will make you very happy. Satisfaction Guaranteed.

This is your chance to tell people who you are. What kind of person you are, what your values are even and perhaps an inside on your life. Doesn't have to be very detailed that your friends will know who you are.
You sound very jaded and slightly bitter. Most women feel that a dick or a big dick is enough. They want to know more about the person too after all if a big dick on an jerk is still a big dick on a jerk, you get what I mean? They want to know your personality too. This area is for you to "market" yourself.


My Ideal Person:
I am lookin 4 someone who wants to be found.
If that is you please respond.

I wouldn't respond to you if that is what you are looking for. I would look for something like "I'd like to meet a sexy, (indicate body shape/size here...) girl who enjoys sex as much as I do, wants a good time in and out of bed (or discreet affair.... yadda yadda) ..... I like women who like.....blah blah.

People tend to look for a common ground in profiles too. Look beyond the fact that it is a sex site, use your interpersonal skills.....I am sure there will be a change.

With the gold membership, you can read and respond to profiles so can get in touch with people.....its all about approach.



Cheers and regards from Sweden.


GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
5/27/2006 6:56 am


I think you got a nice summary in the comment before mine....

welcome to blogging


Rubenesquelady5 46F
99 posts
5/27/2006 8:24 am

Please overlook my spelling and missing words hahahaha

Most women feel that a dick or a big dick is enough.
I meant mot womnen feel that a dick or a big dick isn not enough, they want to know more about the person....


red_hot_trucker 59F

5/28/2006 12:37 am

Asking for help is huge. There is always the joke about the man who won't ask for directions, thus stays lost. Take the advice of the ladies above, and sell yourself. What is it about you that will make women pound at your door all hours of the day and night? Talk to women, get their interest. Honest, we are approachable. We're here for a reason as well as you are. You are on the right path.

If you still need a little help in the area of a profile, try going to the link where they offer help on writing a profile that will get attention. Some of the men who I have responded to were the ones who captivated my attention in their profile.

Good luck to you darlin.





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peaches_delite4u 38T
57 posts
6/26/2006 2:33 pm

Well my dear you are a Pisces and they are known to be charming from my experiences I do think maybe you should give us a little more insight into you and your world, it's on you but never the less that weiner looks good!


rm_hot_t3 47T

8/8/2006 7:50 pm

Dont know what the problem is because I would be there in a heart beat!

Wish you came to Florida!


tiyannah 48T

8/11/2006 8:50 am

Hey Nice1,BABY YOU JUST GOT TO GET THE EXPOSURE THE GIRL ABOVE ME IS HOTTTT!!!!! THE GIRL ABOVE HER IS SIMPLY GORGEOUS........HELL THE THREE OF US IS WHERE IT IS AT LOL......SO NO NEED TO LOOK ANY FURTHER...TAKE CARE "HANG AROUND FUN IS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER".....TIYANNAH


funfoxy321 40M/36F
13 posts
1/15/2007 11:58 am

I've looked over the other posts & agree to narrow your search, add more about yourself & pictures. More pictures let the person you're going to get with know about who you really are & what all they're getting.
It's a start. It's not enought to say that "I want Sex" You got to sell yourself--not promoting prostitution!!! But you have to be your own salesman.
Just my 2 cents


just4fun43605 55M/50F

5/12/2007 8:13 am

we are sargenkristine at the y place if you like our profile we are real and fun


knp102079 59M/58F

4/16/2010 7:19 pm

Let's chat sometime. k n p


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