Are you a woman in search of the perfect teacher?  

newfornow22 34F
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2/2/2006 2:23 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Are you a woman in search of the perfect teacher?

I love women, love the way the smell and feel and taste, but nothing is like a wonderful cock, and actually finding one that is nice attached to a guy that you have a connection with is is so very rare. I did just recently and let me tell ya, worth the wait, even better if the guy thinks like you in more ways than one. I am accustomed to having a girlfriend and if Lydia goes I will have to seek another, but I would settle for a woman that is open minded enough to let me teach her all I know and doesn't want a relationship past that. I want a woman that doesn't want to steal my phone when I am sleeping and see who I have been calling. One that I can enjoy a man with. One that thinks along similar lines. Maybe a married woman that wants to learn what will blow her husbands mind and spice things up.
If more women knew what they were doing and how to do it well there would be allot more pleased men. I think allot of women don't do certain things because they are self conscious and don't want to look dumb trying something they are unfamiliar with. I think you can choose not to gag when giving a blow job, i think you can train yourself not to, it's all in the mind. I think if you think you are going to hate anal sex that you will no matter what, if you decide to give it a fair trial and keep your mind open and positive the experience could be incredible. Same with everything else. Whether you think you will like it or not, your right.
I have never gotten along with women very well and I think that is because i might be a bit threatening and make them self conscious because of both my views and my open sexuality. Even if I am not trying I am seducing their husbands and boyfriends by just being me. Not to say that I am bragging on myself, I am truly shocked at the response i have had here on my looks. I have always thought of myself as descent looking and learned to be happy with my exotic appearance. It's not my looks that attract their men, it's my sexuality that is painfully obvious and their men i am sure they figure it out early on that I would probably be more open than their women are and have been. I don't like dealing with women that have jealous issues or issues with them self's and sex. I give props to a woman that says teach me what you know that makes my husband look at you the way he does. And I will gladly teach them everything if they are willing. I have met a few women that have been bold enough to say this to me. I am sure it can't be easy.
Maybe I should teach a class on it lol. I have had sooo many years of experience and studied it so closely, and gotten in there with the straightforward intention of The trying everything and learning to be the best. I am no size 6 and far from perfect any where, but it's not what you look like that matters so much, every woman has a seductress in them, some cool skill that makes them unique. Such as swallowing bananas a dildo's with out effort.
I don't believe in monogamy, I don't think it is healthy. I don't feel jealously. I don't feel ownership. The only body that is mine is the one I have. Every one else belongs to them self's. My husband was not mine, he did what he wanted and came home to me. Then we would talk about it and get turned on, I loved seeing him with another woman. And I was OK with it when he went out on his own. Allot of things I have noticed on here is the number of couples that swing but the man never goes out on his own and I suspect that allot of women might do the swing thing because they think their husbands will do it anyways and they might as well join so they can be apart of it and see what he is doing with other people. It is a dumb reason to do anything. On the other hand I am just as sure that there are allot of women just like me, if not so open minded. Props to you women that think like me! Not that I judge when some one doesn't think like me but if your not interested or you don't agree you needn't be rude ignorance is unsexy. Im not the only one that thinks so. Don't knock it tillyou try it, until then keep your opinion to yourself because you don't have a reason to say anything yet until you do.
You tell me you hate anal and are never going to try is and I ask you if you ever have and you say no, you look dumb. I'll tell you to go try it and give it a chance and be positive about it then come back and tell me what you think. If then you still feel the same, cool everyone is different. You have earned the right to say your piece. You come back and say you loved it, I say right on!
Talk atcha later,
questions always welcome and lets hear from the ladies! Your sexy as hell and you know it!

rm_spokaneman00 50M

2/3/2006 7:16 am

Wow !!! Without commenting too much, I have to say that was very well written and it shows how passionate you are about subject matter. Good Job.

Guy1378Fox 47M

2/3/2006 9:19 am

Do you mind if men comment as well?

From what I understand, when someone is cheating they often suspect that the other person is cheating. I am sorry that things are not going well between you and Lydia. I hope things improve for you two.

Impressive… You seem to have such an understanding of female sexuality, emotions, and thoughts. Your own and those of other women. I wish more people were as comprehending and in tune as you are.
I think a lot of women would be interested if you taught such a class. Though, many of them would probably be too embarrassed to take it.

You say you do not believe in monogamy. Just out of curiosity, what about marriage or other life long commitments? Which are not necessarily the same thing… Have you read Time Enough for Love? The main character has had several marriages, most of which were contracts for a set number of years from the beginning, partly, because the main character is over a thousand years old.

I like you example about anal. My girlfriend tried it once with her ex. Apparently it was a bad experience and turned her off to the idea. Though, from what I understand, most of that relationship was a bad experience. I have not tried it. Though, I am curious.

rm_KnowStuff 57M
240 posts
2/3/2006 1:54 pm

You wrote this very well and it's kind of hard to believethat you're so young and so dialed in. I've been married longer than you are old <gulp> which proves to me once again that there is still much for me to learn wonder and ponder from others regardless backgrounds etc.

There is no substitute for a strong connection with someone else. You may be a wonderful teacher for some ladies. Don't knock (yes, even coming from the likes of me) monogamy. I think you may still have some use for it. The primary definition is "The practice or condition of having a single sexual partner during a period of time." Maybe your period of time is different. Tune into your lover and you'll find more than just sex.

Regardless of what befalls you and Lydia, share yourself a bit with the world and in particular with those close to you. You'll be happier and they will too.

newfornow22 34F

2/3/2006 2:27 pm

Thanks for your imput and it is very flattering to be given such a nice compliment.
I am glad that you like my writting and hope you will look in on it again as I plan on keeping up with my blogging.
and I want you to feel free to comment as much as you like. I really do like to know the thoughts of other people around me about these subjects and others.

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