Where did sex become wrong?  

neverenough4u3 47M
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9/8/2006 9:15 am

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9/23/2006 8:11 am

Where did sex become wrong?


I'd like to know when and where Sex became taboo or hush hush and why it's wrong to search it out when your not getting any with your spouse.I think as long as your careful and you have tried all other avenues that it should be allowed or respected.I know if my wife was feeling that I would respect her going somewhere else.even though I try to give everyday im shot down to once a month or every two months.....gee thats just wrong. I guess it's ok if both people don't need it or want it but not when both parties don't feel the same..Am I Wrong? Part 2

Tr0ubl3NmInD 43F

9/8/2006 10:16 am

i agree , i have seen that there are ppl in relationships where their partner has cut them off sex for some reason or another and i dont understand how they can do that, because i know in every relationship there will be arguments and fights but if you have open communication then talk it out and make up cuz make up sex is the best , anyways if you cant get it at home after you've done everything in your power to find the problem and fix it then finding it else where may be the only salution.


nikki_im4u 54F

9/8/2006 10:24 am

In my opinion, yes you are wrong.

If you not happy, and you feel you have to lie and cheat (dishonor her) on your wife. Then you should either tell her that you need more sex. If she has reasons why she doesn't have the desire anymore. Then you should get counseling to try to work it out, and if she refuses all avenues. Then you need to tell her that rather than lie and cheat on you, I feel I have to leave you (divorce). I just don't get why some of you men AND women think its ok and justified to cheat. Its not and it never will be ok and nothing will justify lying and cheating.

My opinion
Nikki

Nikki


neverenough4u3 47M

9/8/2006 11:08 am

But what if everything in your life is great except for the bedroom and youve tried everything else first even discussing sex with others. So your saying destroy everything for sex?


Tr0ubl3NmInD 43F

9/13/2006 12:05 pm

Talk to your wife let her know how you feel and find out how she feels and get to the bottom of the problem b4 you just go to someone else for sex and if the two of you can not fix the problem alone maybe you should go to a pro. but to retract the last part of my earlier blog if you feel you have to go to someone else for sex then you should go ahead and get out of the relationship because you dont want to cheat on your wife if you truely love her and vise versa. and tell your wife how pretty she is and how much you love her that may help some . most of all talk to her.


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