Why I will not deny myself sex  

neuroticafrican 37F
131 posts
6/6/2006 8:48 am

Last Read:
7/12/2006 11:07 pm

Why I will not deny myself sex


Whisper, you made me want to put down the reasons I cannot not have sex for a long time, why I shouldn't deny myself, and the first that came up:
1. Abraham Maslows hierarchy of needs - Food, shelter, clothing and sex...right at the bottom, needs to be fulfilled before going up the hierarchy, so to finally reach self actualisation, I NEED to have sex.
2. I'm a human being, but I'm also an animal. It is natural for animals to seek copulation in order to reproduce, it is a natural urge to look at men's chests and oogle....no shame in that, I am wanton, but I'm an animal, and nobody ever faults an animal for that.
3. I love sex. I love that I can loose control, I love that it's the only place I can be myself, that I can whimper, cry, scream when my body tells me to do it. I love the shivers, the shakes, the orgasms, the sweat, I love every bit of it.
4. I can connect with my partner in ways I cannot connect with anyone else. The world would not know how my face contorts when I'm just about to cum, or how he reacts when I touch him, I'm a social animal, this is one of the ways I interact.

Any more suggestions anyone?

Whispersoftly5 53F
15176 posts
6/6/2006 9:26 am

I'm with you on all of this! What in the heck am I doing in a contest involving orgasm denial!?! I'm going to be tending to my sex needs in 5 more days - earlier if I can't stand it and lose the bet! LMAO! Sigh...

Whisper...


neuroticafrican 37F

6/6/2006 11:50 pm

    Quoting Whispersoftly5:
    I'm with you on all of this! What in the heck am I doing in a contest involving orgasm denial!?! I'm going to be tending to my sex needs in 5 more days - earlier if I can't stand it and lose the bet! LMAO! Sigh...

    Whisper...
Whisper, I am still trying to understand that bet, but failing miserably to do so.


rm_goffer11 50M

6/7/2006 4:07 am

5. You know you need it when the person you are with repulses you and forefils you at the same time. I know you have experienced those feelings.
6. You need sex to complete you, without you become irritable, miserable, unhappy, and disassociated.
7. You need sex for you.
8. You need sex as a form of experimentations, understanding and knowledge of yourself.

You should not deprive yourself because someone else says you must.
You must not deprive yourself when someone calls you a name that hurts and makes you want to reevaluate yourself
And remember I am here to help.

Always yours


neuroticafrican 37F

6/7/2006 4:25 am

Thanks X You're my 100th comment.


TLC19713 46M

7/5/2006 1:32 am

You need sex for emotional release


Become a member to create a blog