...the art of seduction  

neotrio 42M/40F  
1469 posts
4/16/2006 4:40 pm

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...the art of seduction

there are some people on this site whom i find absolutely stimulating. there are some whom i don't but have been pleasantly surprised with the number of sexy sophisticates actually lurking about.

then again i guess AdultFriendFinder is a bit more of a sophisticated way to go about what we do than working the drunk crowds in a bar and asking them 100 different ways whether or not they happym; "wanna fuck?" perhaps some swinger, some night, in some seedy bar, struck out too many times and thought, "there's gotta be a better way than this." and thus AdultFriendFinder was created. sorta leveling out the “play”ing field. with AdultFriendFinder not only do we already have one thing in common we're all looking for some kind of action, but being on the site also (for the most part) automatically weeds out people who aren't.

so now that we're among lovers of "action" (whatever action of your choosing) you can sift through to find those who love the same kind of action you do. once you find them, you have to now sift through and weed out 1)those who you aren't attracted to and 2)fakes and phonies. we've come across a couple of people whom we suspect are fake, or not serious about meeting which is unfortunate for them; they don’t know what they’re missing. but most of the time the hard part is finding people who we’re attracted to, who “do it” for us, turn us on, rev our engines, intrigue, fascinate and excite us.

"looks", first of all. some people obsess over looks. well yeah, it helps when you’re physically attracted…i’m not gonna lie. you know it, i know it, we all know it. i’m not gonna spend more than a paragraph talking about it, it’s a preference. but in our book we have to be attracted to both the inside and outside, you could be drop dead gorgeous but if you’re an asshole…see ya! moving on.

we’ve come across people who- are conceited, flaky, too forward, seem shady. some have started off chats with “i’m horny. wanna big cock in your ass?” now i’m not the biggest fan of anal to begin with…but that’s definitely not going to get you anywhere near my ass. but come on…how about a little finesse? put some effort, some elbow grease into it. whatever happened to the thrill of the chase, the art of flirting….foreplay?

luckily there are still some out there who believe in the art of seduction through photos (subtle, artistic, leaving something to the imagination) word (wit, charm, intelligence) and deed (real,
honest, sensual.) those are the people we hope to be “friends” with. we’ve met some great people who fit the bill, but the more the merrier right?

so where are all the sexy, sophisticated, seductive individuals?

come and play with us


Jeepidiot 44M

4/16/2006 5:38 pm

Wonderfully well written.

Unforunately I think this site was honestly started in order to make money. That's it. AdultFriendFinder could care less about who makes an account just as long as someone spends money.

So far all I've seen also is people who have absolutely no intention of ever meeting. Not sure exactly why they are here or what they they have intended.


neotrio 42M/40F  
1213 posts
4/16/2006 5:52 pm

jeep-thanks.

you know i was thinking...we live entirely too far apart. i think we'd rock each other's world. don't you have some vacation time coming to you??


neotrio 42M/40F  
1213 posts
4/16/2006 6:04 pm

vick-thank you. (blushes)
but i've been wondering...what kind of message are you sending with your profile pic? lol

i'm mature?
i'm old fashioned?
mustache rides-10 cents?

lol. thanks for stopping by again.


iluvjbsinaz 56M

4/16/2006 7:44 pm

Alas, you are 17 time zones away.


Jeepidiot 44M

4/16/2006 8:16 pm

don't you have some vacation time coming to you??

Vacation time sure. Got lots of that. Just the little problem of not being able to drive to Guam. But you know the continents and whatnot are slowly moving. If we wait long enough Guam might get close enough for a swim.


sexedcravednemph 36M/32F
260 posts
4/16/2006 9:30 pm

come and play with us

Sure...Which playground? monkey bars? SeaSaw? or the slide?
kisses sweety


neotrio 42M/40F  
1213 posts
4/16/2006 9:34 pm

sexcraved-hmmm...not exactly what i had in mind. come over and we'll show ya

by the way...thanks for being my 500th comment. now for your prize....heh heh...


sexedcravednemph 36M/32F
260 posts
4/17/2006 2:23 am

oh wow! I get a prize? yay! I will close my eyes ok.....

btw name the time for my lesson at your place and we will be there


muscles4u2have 56M  
1645 posts
4/17/2006 8:28 am

Right here!! Here I am!!!


neotrio 42M/40F  
1213 posts
4/19/2006 2:15 am

sexcraved-well...there's no time like the present right?


neotrio 42M/40F  
1213 posts
4/19/2006 2:17 am

muscles-yeah there you are...an entire pacific ocean away. when was the last time you vacationed somewhere tropical? i think you're due. paradise awaits.


neotrio 42M/40F  
1213 posts
4/19/2006 2:22 am

stevo-yes. that is a picture of your dong. but i guess pic-o-dong is better than no pic at all. at least you finally got one up (picture that is.) but not to worry i've not heard you say anything insensitive or moronic yet, you're still pretty neato in my book. (did i just type "neato"? el dorko supremo strikes again.) sigh.

lol.


rm1973 45M

4/23/2006 8:35 pm

I think blogland actually weeds out the unsophisticated ones on this site. Its harder here for people to send out "email blasts" and they actually have to read the blogs, and use their brains to come up with something creative to say (or at least something to say other than a form letter in an email).


toothysmile 52M
16517 posts
4/25/2006 2:55 am

well...
my dear neo,
we 'd have never 'met' had it not been for AdultFriendFinder...
and yes, I find you
absolutely stimulating...
there 's plenty of artful seducing in the blogs... in actually meeting?... lol, I wouldn't know, I 've only met Papy for coffee.

A delightful post, as always...
I 've missed you.

muuuaaaahhh



MisterPriapus 58M
6980 posts
4/26/2006 4:33 pm

dang!

And all I've got is KY's Self-Warming liquid!!!

Where, pray tell, might I pick up some of that lubricant you alluded to? And in what aisle do they keep this 'Elbow Grease' in..?

As far as the degree of my internal attractiveness, I still have the X-Rays from the aftermath of my M/C wreck, tho in the interest of full disclosure- the films are better'n a decade old...

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Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.



And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written!

Lately...

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neotrio 42M/40F  
1213 posts
4/28/2006 7:10 pm

wordy-Even more tragic that many of us marvelous people on this site are so scattered all over the place...instead of much closer where we can all cum "play" together!

you speak the truth wordy...you speak the truth. sigh. distance makes the lust grow fonder. but we can at least take comfort in knowing that we're not alone in our ideals and preferences.


neotrio 42M/40F  
1213 posts
4/28/2006 7:14 pm

rm1973-i think AdultFriendFinder helps to weed out some of the bad elements as far as our sexual endeavors go. and then i agree that the gates of blogland filters further....now the question is...how the heck did i manage to slip by the guards? heh heh....


neotrio 42M/40F  
1213 posts
4/28/2006 7:21 pm

toothy-thank you, as always, for your kind words. the distance is great but no ocean could break the connection. as far as questioning artful seduction when actually meeting...if we ever meet in person, toothy, i don't think there would be anything to question.


neotrio 42M/40F  
1213 posts
4/28/2006 7:34 pm

mr. p-"attention shoppers we are having a blue light special on neo's anal/elbow grease. lube any crease with neo's grease...aisle 5"

about your new profile pic....did you do something different with your hair?


MisterPriapus 58M
6980 posts
5/1/2006 6:37 pm

Neo~

Kewl beans! And I thought Jaquiline Smith and Martha Stewart were K-Fart's only celebrity endorsers! They sell your stuff there?!! I'm so getting a vat of that good grease! You must be INCREDIBLY limber to self-apply it there with your own elbow...

awwwwww... ya noticed... Thanx!

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Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.



And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written!

Lately...

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