needu2play4fun 54F
357 posts
5/27/2006 11:40 am

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6/6/2006 1:24 pm


Not quit sure where to start on this one but I hope that the mysterious person involved gets to read this too .... which i am sure he will do ...

I have often said that the best part of AdultFriendFinder for me was the amazing friendships that I have made on the site and much to my detriment this has nearly put me off the site forever. Why? Well someone who's wife is on this site and who also happens to be my best friend found out that she might not be the loyal wife and he decided to join this site under false pretences ...

At the most inopportune moment he chose to pepper me with questions with regards her movements on the site as he had found out that I too was not who I was supposed to be ... I have had 5 days of absolute hell and have been nearly put off AdultFriendFinder for life my message to him should he read this which I think he will is this ...

Stop for a moment to think of two things ... why is she here and secondly the emotional trauma that you have put an innocent person through because of your own inability to satisfy your wife ...

I will not be dragged into your little web of deceit and if you have morals like you say you do then please respect my decision to be on AdultFriendFinder ...

You asked me to blog about the emotional suffering which you are having to endure because you have found out that your wife is on this site and I can truly understand what you must be going through but to slander us as "sick fucking idiots" without knowing any of us is a real low blow ...

I sincerely hope that you can sort out your problems and if not look forward to welcoming you to the wonderful sick world that we at AdultFriendFinder are living in ... ROFL ....

PineyFolks 60M/60F

5/27/2006 1:40 pm

Hey now we aren't all sick dammitt....LOL


3 posts
5/27/2006 1:46 pm

pakmanf4i have read ur blog i can only say he sounds like a nasty boring guy and dosent have a clue how to please a women .and ur pic is hot xxx

redrobin012057 61F

5/28/2006 3:39 pm

Well if he feels that insecure,I think its best if you talk to abuse team about this, its cyber stalking.You might want to read Kofla's blog on that very subject.

Best Wishes

needu2play4fun 54F
63 posts
5/29/2006 12:52 am

redrobin thanks for the advise hun ... it would help if we knew his handle ...


redrobin012057 61F

5/29/2006 4:20 am

Sorry Hon. Its CyberStalking And Harassment Frequently Asked Questions by SoyKOFLA

redrobin012057 61F

5/29/2006 4:21 am

Just click on the link I have posted.(((((((((hugs)))))))))) Robin!!!

rm_lienkie 53F
45 posts
5/29/2006 4:19 pm

Well, needu i think that if his wife was happy she would not have been on this site in the first place and secondly if she wanted some excitement she could have discuss it with him and then may be both can join and be open to it.This week I also learned a value able lesson don't trust no one.I happened to fall in love with someone just to find out he was sort of using me to get over a very big disapointment.I felt hurt and sore and so angry for myself.but hey FUCK THE PEOPLE and Think about ur self..some people can be nasty ..small things amused small minds girlfriend.

needu2play4fun 54F
63 posts
6/1/2006 10:19 am

lienkie hun sorry to hear that some fool could not appreciate and honest sincere person like yourself ... as they say in the classics LOVE IS BLIND ... Hugs g/f hope things are looking up for you ...

rm_convalescent 35M

6/5/2006 2:42 pm

"I will not be dragged into your little web of deceit and if you have morals like you say you do then please respect my decision to be on AdultFriendFinder ... "

agree 100 % with that statement! to each their own i say, peace love and understanding. everyone defines their own moral boundaries.

what i do find sad is the break down in communication between the 2 of them, that she couldn't discuss it with him is sad. but i guess that says something bout the state of their marriage in the first place, cause that's what a marriage is supposed to be: a place where you can open yourself and discuss the most initimate details of each other.

anyway, i hope that everything has been sorted out. for yours and their sakes

BareBear4u2 46M

12/23/2006 1:52 am

needu2play4fun....ur msg is very thought-provoking...thnx...and so is ur very hot pic....take care and shout if u need a shoulder..xxx

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