Guys, success on AFF how?  

needtoknowu1000 49F
225 posts
4/24/2006 6:45 am

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4/30/2006 10:51 am

Guys, success on AFF how?

Okay guys, I get a lot of mail and some guys will talk and others send one-line invitations to join them at a Super 8 or their pickup truck on a dirt road. So, how do you generally go about it and how well does it work?
I'm direct with an invitation for sex, no chat. Many women find this exciting and I have good success.
Being so direct is fun, but I've never found a hookup that way.
I've made friends with women here; we eventually met and became physical.
I've not had great success with women I've come to know before meeting.


overnovernagain 48M
113 posts
4/24/2006 1:43 pm

I have found for the best sexual experiance, there should be something that attracts you to the person. Not nessicarly friends, but some one you can talk to. Then meeting, and sexual relations anytime from there. Although I am a guy I don't have to have any relations before, but it is a great feeling when you can make her moan and scream with pleasure and some sort of relations is a big part of this.


needtoknowu1000 49F

4/24/2006 2:18 pm

I agree. The problems are married guys wives sometimes get nervous about me and single guys sometimes get too attached to me and I'm not available for anything beyond casual friendship and great sex. there has to be something there, but not TOO much. There has to be a proper balance. To just meet a guy at a motel to just do it seems way too dangerous and while appealing on some level as fantasy, I'm not really sure I'd actually like it that way.

Now, if I meet a guy, like Max, and it clicks like it did with him, it's great. although he is a little more persistant than I'd like him to be at this point. hopefully I'll find myself soon. Again, proper balance.


rm_rapidnready 40M

4/24/2006 6:28 pm

One must be happy with life. To have great sex, you have to be unattached with the one your having sex with. With the sense of knowing that you are having mind blowing sex with someone that you will only see for sexual encounters a level of higher sexual peak can be attained in my opinion. Don't get me wrong, there are many out there that still get mind blowing sex with the one that they are with, but more often than not they are also getting some on the side. If you only eat the same meal every day it gets boring.


needtoknowu1000 49F

4/25/2006 12:55 pm

Like meeting a gentle stranger on a secluded beach; have our fun; go our ways. A fantasy to live out.


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