Did I cross the line?  

needfixing 53M
17 posts
6/1/2006 8:35 am

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6/8/2006 11:46 am

Did I cross the line?

I took a step I never thought I would take and now I am trying to rationalize it. This is the situation: I've been chatting and watching a woman on her cam. Over time we began to mutually masterbate via the cam and instant message (phone is off limits). After a while we decided to meet, but not have sex...you know, it would be nice to meet the person we've been chatting with (rationalization). Long story short; eventhough we are both married and have no intention of having an affair, we did do the "cam thing" WITHOUT the cam. We masterbated for each other! We never touched (another rationalization) except for a handshake when we first met, but I did stand over her and cum on her stomach. Did we cross the line or are we still innocent of cheating? I think I know the answer. Any advice?

quick6forU 57M
12 posts
6/5/2006 12:17 am

Before I joined here I agonized through the thought process, and came up with this answer; no matter how delicately you put it, you're still cheating if it's someone other than your spouse. That's why I didn't hide the fact that I'm married and looking - I'm trying to be honest? There's a rationalization for you.

There is the "we didn't touch" level there between you two - and the "no affair" intention, so you got that.

just had a thought - did she stand over you come on your stomach too? -LOL (how do you show a chuckle?)

needfixing 53M

6/5/2006 5:58 am

quick6: Thanks for your thoughts...I agree, that is why my profile says married. I know you are right, any contact, even on the web is cheating. I've been thinking this over lately and can not come to any other conclusion. My most recent rationalization (or attmpt at it) is that I am cheating at the lower end of the spectrum. I know it is wrong, but I can;t help how other women turn me on. I guess I will go to hell...I wonder how many hot women there are there?

Oh, to answer you question: No, she did not stand over me and cum (too busy rubbing it in), but that would be a fun thing to see a woman try.

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