What really turns you on? And off?  

rm_nawty1974 46M/44F
189 posts
5/24/2006 7:23 am

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What really turns you on? And off?

Time for feedback guys, so what really turns you on? Is it a way a woman carries herself, what she wears, how she smells, a certain body part, her mind ie whether it is intellect or dirtiness, her personality.
Question is also for the girls

The sexiest quality in a man for me is the ability to make me feel comfortable, not intimidated, I like bad boys, a bit rough around the edges. Hands and eyes do it for me, but forearms, oh my god strong forearms…nnnnggghhhh. When I was in Matric there was a guy in my class who was just built a lot bigger than all the others, he was playing 1st team rugby in std 8. I would watch him write and see the tendons in his forearms twitching, it made concentrating very hard!!! Smell is also very important, the smell of Fahrenheit makes me go weak!!
My biggest turnoffs…… BO, bad breath, dirty fingernails, feet….. and the worst crime of all is spitting, my pet peeve!! But strangely even though I hate feet, a man in Birkenstocks is yummy, guess it’s the hippy travel / German thing (without the socks lol!)

Famous people with huge sex appeal (not best looking I am talking about sexy!) in my opinion would have to be James Woods a few years back, Patrick Swayze in Dirty Dancing and Justin Hawkins the lead singer from The Darkness, watch the video for ‘love is only a feeling’ girls!!! Yep I have weird taste, not really into pretty boys (although I would never say no) I like em a bit rough around the edges!

So what really turns you on?

Naughtyfuck692 48M
15 posts
5/26/2006 7:57 am

Firstly the eyes, if I get a connection with the eyes, the rest just fall in place. Strange fello me I know.

Secondly a nice body, need not be a barby figure, just nice.

And lastly a personality. That does it for me.

rm_kwaki2000 34M
27 posts
5/26/2006 1:17 pm

Her smile thats the first thing I look at am not into serious faced women, self confidence is definately up the list and the butt just speaks to me in a way i cant describe. basically I guess its a turn on being with someone who is in touch with themselves and just knows what she wants.

rm_Capie00 56M
41 posts
5/28/2006 3:46 am

Should I say, and true to the gender I'm born into, damn I love the female body! What catches my eye? ... The whole package!

Attractiveness is important and is the thing that makes me notice her. The most important question for me is: what makes a woman interesting? Definitely the ability to flirt! ... Giving subtle messages and still you don't know. Only you get the message ... and still you are not sure ... is there something or not. The ability to give these messages so subtle that you still wonder ... Damn sexy! Flirting is foreplay to a relationship! Finally the way she carries herself ... the femininity she transmits.

Smell is important ... every person has a unique smell ... it's in their skin.

Bad breath is a definite turnoff!

Have fun!

rm_ddnnll 38M

5/28/2006 12:03 pm

Well, all of the above, but want to add, you have a beautiful pic on. Anyway, been a boring weekend for me.

0utlawza 45M

5/29/2006 5:08 am

Heya Nawty

For me, everything about a woman makes them sexy. Depends on what mood one is in also. Any woman othere than a skinny supermodel eeeuuuwwww. Whats really off putting is when you go to Billy the Bum's (JH and they have fashion TV playing in the background. All i want to do is puke. Just horrible. I think a woman with a confident/bubbly personality can be sexier than Alyssa Milano (my absolute fav)

Just my 2c worth


0utlawza 45M

5/29/2006 5:10 am

sorry, just need to add a line: there are limits however. Some people just dont have anything at all.

Hope i have not offended anyone here.


rm_nawty1974 46M/44F
126 posts
5/29/2006 5:51 am

Hey guys, thanks for all the replies. The consesnus seems to be someone wiht a sensual / sexual energy that comes across in body language etc and not necessarily miss perfect.
Outlawz you won't insult anyone, we all like certain things and shouldn't have to drop our standards becasue it is more PC. I am a big girl as you may know but if a guy said I don't like fat women that is fine but if he says he doesn't like fat women because they are lazy slobs then I do take offense, I hate generalisations. As long as someone is open to all people and non judgemental, you never know until you try right?

equitiestrader 50M

6/5/2006 4:04 am

Tits and ass. Dont really know what more to say.ummmmm..*thinks for a bit*...Someone who makes me feel comfortable and happy with being me. I dont want anyone trying to mould me into their perfect man. I of course treat the ladies the same way. Looks play a minor role for me and hopefully always will.
What i enjoy now, is chatting to people in chat rooms. The chat is good fun and one always seems to gravitate towards others of like mind. This kind of chemistry, although you have never met, is vital and more important than looks.....*winks*

rm_convalescent 35M

6/5/2006 2:56 pm

"Justin Hawkins the lead singer from The Darkness"

ok that's weird. i would've thought he is one of the ugliest guys on the planet!

man for me, ok well i'm going to quote my own profile here cause well i'm lazy and it's late in the day: "someone who is sassy and in touch with her sexuality and isn't scared to show it! confidence in a woman is an unbeleivable turn on."

rm_2needy4 44F
38 posts
6/5/2006 10:38 pm

Confidence, assertiveness, amazing smile and eyes that speak, are some of the things that turn me on

rm_dbn_cpl4fun 48M/F
5 posts
2/13/2007 11:47 am

When I see a women and we look at each other and she smiles. Its the smile for me...

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