Oral Sex - giving and reciving - male and female  

naughi 45F
52 posts
4/11/2006 10:29 am

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Oral Sex - giving and reciving - male and female

Being Bi I get the best of both worlds !

I just love giving head ! I don't know what it is about it, I just really enjoy the sensation. I have sucked many in my time, big, small, bendy, straight, thick, thin, even male and female. What is interesting though is that some men like to grab the back of your head and push you deeper, WHY ? If I wanted to gag and puke all over your private parts I would tell you and I'm sure you would not want me to either,. A nice gentle head massage while I go down on you is always welcome, a supporting hand running through my hair nice as well, but a push, or a thrust forward, NO ! I dosen't work that way boys. Some of you have watched too many porn films where the actor has been paid to take it that way, just cus he or she moans, don't mean its working out ! Be gentle, let us do the work, we are the ones working the magic.

I love the first time it sits on your lips and you start to guide it in. A nice warm cock, medium to big, inside my mouth is like nothing else. Its warming, satisfiing and strangly comfortable, almost like (but not quite like) sucking my thumb when I was young (I stopped when I was 16 !). The feeling of expecation is wonderfull, sometimes I close my eyes, sometimes I look up and watch his reaction. Personally I love giving it slow, maybe beacause \i love reciving it slowly as well, I don't know. It is nice to linger, to tease, to enjoy the moment. I enjoy taking in the wamrth of the man , if he is long i do take him deeper, a bit more of an effort, but i do and i enjoy it. Sometimes just lingering on the tip anjd then plunging down the shaft, working my way all the way down. I found advice in a book once about proper breathing when you go down on a man, and it does make it much better. If you take a deep breath, then slowly breath out as you go down the shaft it makes it easier to take the whole shaft in.

There you go, some knowledge for you.

I love giving oral sex to my girlfriends as well. But this is different, I don't get any sexual feeling from it, apart from the amazing rush of watching her enjoy it, THAT IS A GREAT FEELING. I love being passive, but dominant, letter her reactions guide me to what it working, what is not. I love to satisfie her, to please and tease her. I adore my other half and one major part of sex with her is foreplay, I love pleasing her for as long as possible before and during sex. I especially love playing with her and teasing her, whatching her build up until she begs me to enter her. I don't ! as I know she is enjoying me playing with her. What is interesting is when a woman twitches ! Does that happen to all of you ! I LOVE IT it is soooo funny (and sexy). She likes it to ! It is obvious what area tiggers it. Yes the ladies little erection, the bean, the third nipple, The CLIT. I have spent many an hour enjoying watch her scream, moan, groan and twitch. I get so much satisfaction knowing she is enjoying herself, that turns me on more than the act itself.

Allsleeky 37F

4/11/2006 2:47 pm

There are guys who enjoy it even more when I woman gags. I don't understand why! I also love to know that my man enjoys it when I give him a good oral session!

8337 posts
4/11/2006 3:04 pm

For men it's an animalistic instinct, the penis, to dominate with it. Thrusting is the natural tendency, esp towards climax. It ties in with what a man is, his primal self. The thrusting deep is the mechanism through which a man can enact his will in the most savage way. Man being animal.

It just happens that the chosen orifice is the mouth, in place of the pussy or ass. The act remains the same, the tendencies remain the same.

To you women who read this:

You want him to thrust deep while he's fucking your pussy, you ask for it, beg for it, demand it. Why is it so hard to understand why his natural instinct would be to do the same to your throat? It's not hard to understand, very simple actually.

Fucking is an animal act. Trying to rationalize it any other way goes against conventional wisdom.

If you allow him in your mouth, he wil try at some point to fuck your throat.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

fantasylover_05 63M

4/11/2006 5:54 pm


Sounds amazing!!


naughi 45F

4/11/2006 11:53 pm

wow mr division, too serious. As miss sleeky says, its all abgout giving but the giver should be able to enjoy it !

8337 posts
4/12/2006 1:04 am

    Quoting naughi:
    wow mr division, too serious. As miss sleeky says, its all abgout giving but the giver should be able to enjoy it !
I'm just keeping it real, man.

I'm a Psychology major, explaining the fundamental reason why men thrust during oral. That's all.

I agree the giver should enjoy it, not arguing that.

But men are aggressive and their nature is to push, to thrust, enact will and push boundaries. In this case, the boundaries are your throat. It is what it is.

Not trying to be soddish or cheeky, just blatantly real.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

rm_moonboy23 37M
893 posts
4/22/2006 5:38 am

it is me and my feeling you explain in the last paragraph lol.....naughi
especially when she try to moves while moaning....
+ for some reason like the taste of the pussy

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