On Line Relationships  

mysticdreamangel 62F
1119 posts
7/15/2006 4:34 pm

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On Line Relationships

I have met some very wonderful men and woman on here and hope to continue doing so. I'm just a little concerned with those that seem to want you one on one just because of an email, camming, or a mention in a blog. I know that some of us are lonely, which does include myself, and are looking for something we may never find. If I chat with someone and I don't hear back I can't take offense because they do have a life of their own...if I cam with someone and they find me unattractive, oh well, life goes on...if I'm mentioned in a blog...I'm flattered, if I mention someone in a blog it is because I think they are special.

So why do some take it so personally if you don't respond to an email right away...if you don't cam for them upon command...or if you don't write about them in a blog? Again, yes I know, they are lonely...just like me...but I would never pressure someone to chat with me.

Can I answer all my emails, no...do I read them all, yes...do I delete a lot, yes...do I save those that I hope to get the time to respond to, yes...do I receive winks from men that are as hot as hell, yes...do I always wink back, no because some of them are my son's age, lol!

I guess on line relationships are the hardest because it is so easy for someone to misinterpret what you write or don't write...or you can misinterpret what they write or don't write.

All I know is that I have met some very wonderful people on here and I hope to continue doing so. Please understand that as much as I would like I cannot answer each and everyone of you and sometimes I just like to read and not respond. It doesn't make me a bad person...just one that has a life outside of AdultFriendFinder.

I hope you all will find whatever it is your looking for as I hope I find what I'm looking for as well....

1586 posts
7/15/2006 5:49 pm

I always feel that if someone is going to be demanding, possessive and jealous online, they'd be even worse in "real life".

Dealing with people here (and on other sites) can be very telling if you give it enough time.

Just like any other sort of relationship, eventually the pretense stops and you see the real person. Sometimes I haven't liked what I've seen, but I am extremely grateful that I have never ended up in an uncomfortable situation offline.

Great post!

mysticdreamangel replies on 7/15/2006 9:39 pm:
DCEbony...You are right in all that you said and thank you for stopping by!


marywannado 44F

7/15/2006 6:06 pm

Just looking for that special friendship...

mysticdreamangel replies on 7/15/2006 9:40 pm:
Aren't we all!!!!!!

free2chose2 67F

7/15/2006 8:37 pm

Better words not spoken/posted

Don't worry, be Happy

mysticdreamangel replies on 7/15/2006 9:41 pm:
I thank you...I have read many of your blogs although I haven't responded and you are a remarkable woman.

Thanks for stopping by!

FrogsDefogMenta 64M  
84 posts
7/15/2006 10:31 pm

Kudos...Touche....xo mon ami..

mysticdreamangel replies on 7/16/2006 7:09 am:
Well thank you...

mycin62 55F

7/21/2006 8:33 pm

I hardly ever answer my e-mail, well mostly because I'm not looking to hook up. I ALWAYS answer e-mails from fellow bloggers tho, that's basically why I don't turn my profile off. Like you, I've met some really great people here on the blogs, and we do have a group of CT blogger that get together. If you're interested check out NSAaddict, she'll hook you up

mysticdreamangel replies on 7/22/2006 3:37 pm:
Thank you...I just might do that!

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