Common Theme...  

mysticdreamangel 62F
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7/23/2006 12:39 pm

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Common Theme...

“To be sensual, I think, is to respect and rejoice in the force of life, of life itself, and to be present in all that one does, from the effort of loving to the making of bread.”
-James Arthur Baldwin

Today there seems to be a common theme in many of the blogs that I have read. Is a blog, regardless of the site chosen, written for the masses or for oneself?

My belief is that each time someone adds a post to their blog it is like adding a page to a private journal and then sharing it with the world. Some expect comments…some don’t; some expect to evoke emotions in the readers…some don’t; some add a post to make their numbers go up…some don’t; some post pictures to lure their prey…some don’t…

Each of us post our words, pictures, and thoughts…for different reasons and those reasons are private and should be respected. If someone doesn’t like a post…then don’t read it…if you do read it, don’t comment if you have nothing constructive to say…would you want someone doing that to you? Can you imagine if when posting a picture someone responded by saying, “You are not attractive”? So why do some people feel they can make comments like that regarding someone’s thoughts?

Yes, AdultFriendFinder is known as a sex site, but not all of us are here for that reason. Surprised…you shouldn’t be! Think about it AdultFriendFinder…the key word, “ADULT”! We are adults all looking for something and those of you that say your not looking for anything are just fooling yourselves, your not fooling us! For those of you looking for sex only…do you really think you will find it here? How often do you think that happens? Can you find sex here…yes…but it takes work. It’s no different than any other venue. You have to form a relationship with the person…whether it be sending emails, camming, IMing or talking on the phone. You know what it sounds like…those dreaded words…GETTING TO KNOW SOMEONE!

I’m here because I know that there are many people out there that have the same thoughts, feelings, wants and needs that I do. It is a way to express myself. As I wrote to someone today, each time I post my thoughts I don’t expect a response…if I get response that means I have written something that someone can relate to; if I don’t get a response, as has been the case to a few of my posts, I believe that those that have read my words know they were written for no one other than myself or for one individual. Those are the times that the silence means more than anything. It means that the readers respect me and know it’s better to not say anything.

I started this post with a quote that I believe is true…a person cannot be sensual unless they put all they have into everything they do. Those on here that I find sensual, and yes I mean both men and women, are the ones that give 100% of themselves to every facet of their lives…those that have the courage to share their words with the masses, those that are confident enough with themselves to let their weaknesses show through.

To those of you who don’t understand those of us that choose to share our inner being…I feel sorry for you. If a picture is the only way you can sell yourself there must be total emptiness inside. Can you expect to find a sexual partner with a picture…don’t count on it! Even with a one night stand there has to be a connection…no connection…no sex!

Do yourself a favor…read some blogs…don’t comment, just read it. If you see a photo that attracts you…read the words of the person in the photo…get to know that person…who knows, maybe in time a proper response will come to mind. Add a reply…it could lead to a more sensual sexual experience…the person on the other end could be the one!


FrogsDefogMenta 64M  
84 posts
7/23/2006 2:17 pm

Myst,
Welcome to the public forum, where anyone can say almost anything in response, be it in affirmation,disparity,love, anger, disbelief, so on and so on.
The "putting" 100% of oneself is, or should be, an intergral part of the "being"..."PASSION"... I describe it as, for if one has the "passion", the flow of the positive in the inner soul is fortified and emanates to all in the life circle. Negative begets negative..and it is unfortunate that some individuals don't realize that the future "fruits" alas are not of the blue ribbon variety.. One is not selfish in seeking inner tranquility, be it by posting blogs, cam, IMs, phone...one is SELFIST...being in control of your destiny via the positive energy, which has never nor never will cause harm or hurt to any soul..
Again dear friend...you have reached another step in the attempt to understand the human psyche..a conundrum which will always keep "us" as a whole, seeking that which we may never truely understand, yet because of who and what we are..we continuue the journey with a smile and a thank you...
Thank You...
I remain, ...as I am,
a beleiver...and a friend
C


mysticdreamangel replies on 7/23/2006 2:39 pm:
As always your words of moved me...thank you my new friend.

MDA

mycin62 56F

7/24/2006 8:14 am

Actually, I do that quite often. I only comment, if I feel I can make a contribution to the post. I don't comment for comments sake.


mysticdreamangel replies on 7/24/2006 5:11 pm:
Thank you for letting me know it's not just me...and thanks for the comment!

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