Still Learning  

musicalplaythg1 51F
4 posts
8/28/2005 12:18 pm

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6/14/2006 8:25 am

Still Learning

It's been several years since my ex-husband and I got involved in the lifestyle and it completely changed my life. At the start of our adventures, I was feeling very ugly and uninteresting and my then husband and I were having a lot of problems.

For other couples, my advice: If you have problems already, fix them before engaging in this type of'll only get worse if you don't. Communication is the most important thing in your relationship, without that, you'll have nothing. My ex and I were not good about that and it wasn't just him, at times I was terrible about not saying what I really was thinking.

If you are a single woman: YES, you can find someone who will love you here, but don't bet on it anymore than you would on finding someone in the grocery store! And BE CAREFUL to protect yourself, if you're meeting someone for the first time....MAKE IT PUBLIC and tell someone else where you're going!

For anyone: HAVE FUN!

musicalplaythg1 51F
2 posts
10/27/2005 5:48 am


You're right......there are as many phoney women as men here. I wish you luck.

rm_tommy2000a 55M/59F
2 posts
11/24/2005 8:49 am

very correct on communication being the cornerstone of a good relationship. wife and i have just started into the lifestyle and been looking for a couple of female to share some new expierences withh finaly met a realy cool and patiant couple and took our time they were very consiterate of my wifes feelings and we took three dates to realy get into it and all is great now wife cant wait to find some other people to join us. hope to meet musical soon you sound like a very good lady take care all

Ragin1976 41M
2 posts
4/14/2006 5:40 pm

I have just sighned up to this site and learning a few things. I also have one of those shity marriages with no communication and when there is it yelling. I'm looking for someone to educate me furthure.

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