Are You For Real? Why some guys say that.  

muscles4u2have 56M
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1/27/2006 10:50 am

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Are You For Real? Why some guys say that.

Happy C.New Year! TGIF! Dream On!

Women get tired of getting messages from guys that start out with "are you for real". Here is what happened to me. There is this gorgeous picture of a woman posted, perfect match for me, ect., and they say please leave me you email so I can get back to you. Well along time ago I did leave my email and I am still getting shit from that one email. Here is one I copied:

How are you! I saw your message on the personals..
Thanks for getting in touch with me... I have been
using only one personals site lately, so if you want
to.. you can talk to me through here.. I'm under the
screen name airlinelove:

this is your pword - oursecret

I don't just give this out to anyone, so.....keep it
on the downlow!!

My picture is on there... It says I'm in Birmingham. I
stay there every once in a while with family, that's
where I'm originally from.

I am looking forward to talking, I have more pictures
you may want to see.... Let me know..

Stay in touch!


I am getting freakin tired of these emails. Now when I see a gorgeous woman's profile I am very Leary about if they are real.

Now I have learned what to look for though. If they don't answer any questions about them self's in the profile...they are scammers. Also if they say leave me your email, so I can get back to you....they are scammers!! I am pissed off!! I think at least 30% of women's profiles are scams!!

Now ladies you know why some men say "are you for real". Never have used it, but I do know why they do.

Women do you have the same problem?

Any way not going to let it get me down. Have a awesome weekend Blogville!!!

SaucyNSassy 40F

1/27/2006 11:31 am

LOL! I have gotten a lot of emails that ask if I am for real... I always respond with... Uhhh..yes. I guess it makes a little more sense now. I have never been approached by a fake guy on here. Lucky me!
Maybe if you look at less attractive women you won't have this

muscles4u2have 56M
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1/27/2006 11:47 am


Well I am looking at a picture of a gorgeous woman right now and she is real. Lets see what was her name? Oh yea "SAUCYNSASSY"!! I was wondering if that happens to women!

sassybelle21 33F  
13313 posts
1/27/2006 12:54 pm

I got a couple of those are you for real emails because my profile doesn't seem typical

TabithaElectra79 39F

1/27/2006 1:36 pm

Nope never cum across that one before...

oldman1776 79M
3164 posts
1/27/2006 5:29 pm

Hell I never get email.

Have a question. Did you grow up in washington and if so what town.

PailsDiverHonks 56F

1/27/2006 8:06 pm

I have never gotten emails like you wrote about but I am asked in every other email if I am real. I got tired of it, wrote in my profile to STOP asking me that question. If I WAS NOT real do you think I would have taken the time to write in a blog?

tillerbabe 57F

1/28/2006 11:19 am

(I would say it's closer to 40 - where there is money to be had.. there will "scammin"!

I don't so much have a problem with "fake" profiles of men..but fake penis pics. I once walked out on a guy that didn't "measure" up to his picture. In fact I wrote a blog about it many moons ago: [post 92710]
It might make you laugh.

BTW..are thise "abs" yours????

saddletrampsk 55F

1/29/2006 11:07 am

Im real..real horny..

__Huntress__ 56M/59F

1/29/2006 5:11 pm

Squeeze ...


__Huntress__ 56M/59F

1/29/2006 5:14 pm

P.S. I'm wondering the same thing about this one ... boneyard19067 ... whaddya think ?

__Huntress__ 56M/59F

1/29/2006 5:15 pm

He looks like this ... boneyard19067 ... and is supposedly just around the corner from me ... !

(Princess Lips)

1/29/2006 11:37 pm

I blogged about this...
sugar and spice...

hate this kinda mail-
delete delete delete


muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
1/30/2006 8:58 am

Sexy Sassy,

Well I know your real & sexy! So how was you trip?

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
1/30/2006 9:02 am

Hottest of the Hotties Tabs,

Wonder how cum? I don't think there are as many men ones as women.

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
1/30/2006 9:04 am


I will send you a message on that, not going to put it in the blog.

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
1/30/2006 9:10 am


The ones that I see that are a scam don't have blogs, so you have a great point. I think alot of people don't pay attention to the blog portion either. Maybe those men aren't smart enough to figure it out, so you better off not replying anyway. Thanks for the visit!

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
1/30/2006 9:14 am


You are right! It probably is closer to 40, I was not wanting to over estimate. I'll bet there probably is a bunch of fake pictures too! You want to see if they are mine?

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
1/30/2006 9:21 am


With a name like that you must be into horses? Horny huh! Well I wished I was there then!

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
1/30/2006 9:25 am

Beautiful Huntress,

Greeneyes made a great point. Scams probably don't blog. Write him a message and se if he replies! Go for it! Be interesting to see if he is!

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
1/30/2006 9:29 am

Hot Lips,

Well now I know that women get it too. Thought maybe they only target men. I am with you delete, delete.

caressmewell 54F

1/30/2006 3:31 pm your 3 questions:

What is the most sensual thing you have done?

Red, Brunette or Blonde?

Your most embarassing moment?

I'll check back tomorrow

frangipanigal 46F
10406 posts
1/31/2006 4:56 am

I had no idea about all these fake female profiles and the scams involved until some male friends of mine from the site disclosed the problem after a few drinks.

Cant say I have ever been asked if I am for real but I have had messages that were worth less credit than even that comment.

Havent come across any fake male profiles, just lots of fakes and liars.

THANK GOODNESS for the few rare gems hidden behind the masses of S(!T!!


PS Yep, if those abs are yours, I am impressed!!

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
1/31/2006 8:42 am


Sensual: Very tough. A kiss to me is very sensual. A happening though would be: Met a young woman in Italy and we could not understand each other, except for hand jestures and some words. We were attracted to each other some how and I took care of every one of her desires, while never really being able to talk to her.


Embarassing: Start giving a speech with my fly down!

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
1/31/2006 8:47 am


I can only imagine how many guys are liars. I know I have a hard time with some of my male friends. They sometimes talk bad about women and I have to set them straight. They don't talk badly about women if front of me any more! Most of those type are my close friends anyway. Thanks for the visit!

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
2/1/2006 8:41 am


I can understand why. It is because you have such awesome, sexy pictures. Most of the profiles with sexy pictures are scams. But some guys are male pigs, when it comes to not getting what they want. Your awesome for being up front.

sassybelle21 33F  
13313 posts
2/1/2006 9:39 am

My trip was occay. I miss my blog and you and some other people from here.

muscles4u2have 56M
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2/1/2006 10:40 am

Sexy Sassy,

You missed me!!!! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. That was nice!! I missed you too!! BIG HUG!!!

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