The Rewards of Perseverence  

mpaul3 54M
48 posts
8/7/2006 8:25 am

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The Rewards of Perseverence

I have been a member on this site now for over 3 years. While I have not been overly successful in finding what some people think is the measure of success on here,(lots of sex), I truly have grown in ways I never would have guessed when I first embarked on this journey, I'm on now. I have grown in how I view the whole relationship thing, not only in realizing that although sex can be and is a very important aspect of life, but that sometimes just knowing that there are people out there who share so many of the same wants, needs, and overall frustrations that I do, lessens the impact of those times when things are bad, and seem to be overwhelming. I thank all of my friends on this site for the patience, and non-judgemental advice, and well wishes.

phoenix639 50F

8/7/2006 10:14 am

I think you will find many fellow bloggers started here llooking for something...then we have foung the blogs & a whole new universe opened up instead.

Ive made brilliant friends here...offline too.

The blogs are by far the best part of AdultFriendFinder.

mpaul3 replies on 8/8/2006 10:43 pm:
I've been lucky to have found a more local core group on here with the AdultFriendFinder Bootcamp. It's like a support group
I've not had much experience yet with the blogs but they appear to be an even larger version of what I've found in the Bootcamp.

Thanks for your comment, and for visiting my blog.

redmustang91 58M  
8917 posts
8/7/2006 10:20 am

You grow from learning about yourself and others. Knowledge gained is satisfying in ways that are hard to articulate but still interesting.

mpaul3 replies on 8/9/2006 8:46 am:
redmustang...thanks for your comments, and for visiting my blog...
Both are appreciated.

Etherealbreeze 55F

10/5/2006 12:35 am

Hi, truer words have never been spoken. But don't sell yourself short because the fact is that many people have been here as long or longer than you, and they haven't bothered to search their hearts for anything else than what they started out to do; more's the pity.
You've changed and grown because you found the need to. You've begun to walk the path to self-knowledge and self-awareness and there's no going back. That is your strength, all else will follow


I am Roz , a rose that's ephemeral and rare. Yet always here! Hugz!

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