The Glorious World of Ex-Boyfriends  

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3/12/2005 7:26 am

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The Glorious World of Ex-Boyfriends

Ok well first of all let me say that I like to still be friends with ex's because I have a hard time making and keeping friends. And let me also just say my friends are jerks.
My ex-fiance (he broke up with me when I ignored an ultimatium) still thinks that its his right to sleep with me and tell me how to live my life eventhough it seems like he is going out with someone new.
It started right before he broke up with me. He was getting increasingly more verbally abusive to me and I had the feeling that he was trying to get me to break up with him. But I didn't and he eventually broke up with me. The week after that he started talking more and more about a woman who he went to school with him. She is a nice enough girl but it just seemed to me that it was really weird timing.
Well lately he's been going out with her more and more. He treats her kid like she is his and he's always wanted a child.
My problem is that eventhough we aren't still going out, we're friends with benefits. I want to stop that if he is seeing this girl because its not fair to her but he says nothing is happening between them. But events are making it seem like he is lying. When I call him on the phone and he's with her he avoids saying my name and he lies to her about who is on the phone and likewise if he is with me.
Two days ago I got really tired of this cloak and dagger shit and told him to get lost. If he can't be honest, then I don't need anything from him.
I am too much of a dope.

rm_blueyes55901 68M

3/12/2005 2:25 pm

Not a dope. Sometimes we repeat a lesson hoping the answer will change. Deep down we know it won't.

Be honest. Don't you really think the dope is the new girlfriend willing to pimp herself just so her child can have a father figure.

Look around. This is your time. Enjoy the trip. The best part about having an ex it the journey finding someone to take his place.

Besides anyone with your smile ought to never hide it behind a tear.

mnfun952 103M

3/12/2005 2:41 pm

First off, welcome to The Blogging World... as you've probably already helps, a lot, to talk about things that are on your mind, even if you're sharing your thoughts, ideas, feelings and experiences with complete strangers. Second - friends with benefits is not a bad thing at all... you have to take care of yourself. Don't worry about that might or might not be fair to the 'other girl' that's up to him to decide (as he's the one in the relationship with her, not you). But yea, you should probably work on finding someone new...

redswallow777 49M
6811 posts
3/15/2005 10:30 am

I trust your gut feeling that you need to be out of this relationship....take care of yourself here and remember no one deserves to be the recipient of verbal or physical abuse. There are men out there that will give you the respect you deserve....good luck in your search.

1 post
4/22/2005 6:00 am

hey girl .... this is why i am on here to explore & make new friends. life is a wonderful gift & should not be wasted on such on scum. love should never hurt & should not fill your heart with lies. drop me a line if you wanna talk.

seasearcher47 59M
4 posts
8/10/2005 10:42 am

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