Old lovers as friends!....  

misterme1960 57M
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5/9/2006 9:22 am

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5/16/2006 1:09 pm

Old lovers as friends!....

In my life I have seen so many relationships broken up by former lovers that it's disgusting.

A couple has a time when they aren't really getting along, but nothing to extreme.

And there's that old friend from the past that just wants to help because they are so concerned about the situation. Friends for life right? As they keep circling like a hawk over it's prey. Some emotions get shared and then some feelings and the next thing you know they become intimate and have sex. There isn't any real connection, other than they are comfortable cause they have been there before, and it's a comfort to someone.

I'm sorry!...This doesn't work for me!....
It's over at this point in my opinion....

But then sooner or later as the relationship is again back on track, someones conscience gives their partner subtle hints of what's went on with an old friend.
Then more lies, and yes!
Another break up!....
Hopefully kids aren't involved!....

If a person is really aware of their surroundings and their partner, you can always tell when something is going on. I've been there and done that a couple times, and I sensed it long before I knew.

Where is a persons moral's today?
Why are so many people so selfish?
And why do people keep these old lovers in their lives to destroy their future?
People need to get a clue here, yes, we can be cordial. But not to the point of being intimate and sharing anything personal about our lives.

I will never cheat in my life again!
I have always wanted to be friends with everyone, but I learned the hard way that you can't. Especially in this world of dishonesty, manipulation and selfishness.....
And yes, some more friends get torn apart by an ex-lover...My lady told me of our friends yesterday, and there are kids involved....


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