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milady_de_winter 45F
938 posts
7/8/2006 7:04 am

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7/9/2006 10:29 pm

of my thoughts

just left the chat room... there are some nice people in there ...having said that some people are damm annoying

I may be on the rebound but damm i am not fucking desparate for a fuck

T just sms-ed me today ... he called as well...its been 3 months and he now wants to meet up for a fuck..he is nice..i like german men..they say what they say and they deliver.

Anyway, i was upset last nite...i get sick of the damm mentality and mindset society has against divorcees here...

Its like a woman has no self value or standing in society unless she is someone's daughter, wife or mother... by that i mean the stigmata here they have against divorcees is really bad..it as though a divorcee is desparate and only good for fooling around with...what about the fact the woman is a good professional? what about the fact that the woman can make a mark in society based on her merits???

A friend said to me " my sister is a divorcee and the moment a decent man finds out she divorced he stands back...she is not good enough for a normal relationship..."

I felt so upset with that statement..its like the fact a divorcee is seen as a third rate citizen..not qualified for a relationship... only good for an easy lay...why? because she is second hand stuff

I hate that...i really do.... all women regardless of whether they are single or divorced deserve a good relationship- not to be castigated for not being virgins..not to be used for sex...not to messed about

Thats why i believe a woman must be strong...jeeezz to take all this crap...

spoke to S about this...he is sweet and understands me... meeting him for lunch tommorrow

Ciao Ciao

manlovesfun99 62M
23 posts
7/8/2006 8:29 am

thats an awaking for me... i always thoght divorse could never have a stigma attached to it, i guess each society finds some retarded reasoning to show prejudice

LeninRuntsBurrs 43F

7/9/2006 12:45 am

chin up dear. society will be the way they are. to change it is not easy. we just have to live our lives and be deaf. surround ourselves only with those who are on our wavelengths.

my prob may not be anythign like yours, but women who are very large and ugly like me, face a lot of prejudice too. over the years, i have learnt to turn a deaf ear when someone shouts out a window of a fast car at me or walk out with my head held high if someone is reluctant to hire me cause of how i look.

i walk around with the confidence that i am who i am and i know i am better than those people, and I dont feel the need to tell them that anymore. I know thus it shows.

This has helped me have great friends and a good job. And now I am more focused on what I want to do in life.. to travel and become a photo-journalist.

LeninRuntsBurrs 43F

7/9/2006 12:59 am

Psst... go to my blog, maybe something there can help you.

rm_harembanger 54M
49 posts
7/9/2006 7:50 pm

Hi Ladies, you guys are right. Attitude, perceptions and mentality. I hate it when people are prejudice to others. I had a fair share of that miseries. Like qb slut said give them a deaf ears. Fuck these people! It's your life and they have no right to judge you.

qb slut... I guess we are in the same boat. But who cares what they think. Anyway, keep that chin high. You too MDW!

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