Ran Into A Dud  

michelle99xxx 48F
28 posts
8/20/2006 6:49 pm
Ran Into A Dud

It's overwhelming how many responses s female gets aroun dhere. I can't respond to all the messages. Many can't seem to comprhend me being married and the problems it creates but no use getting into that. It does mean I can't check in all the time to look at my messages.

I did meet with one "gentleman," his messages on AdultFriendFinder were kind and realistic with the situation I'm in so I set up a meeting with him.

Ironically, it turned out that I knew him, he was someone I met at a seminar early in the year. He doesn't know me, I was just a "face in the crowd." Me knowing him was a plus but the problem was his picture was an old one so I didn't recognize him from the image and when he showed up he was drunk.

The ironic thing is me knowing him was a huge advantage; I would have fucked his brains out that night but he misrepresented himself and arrived in a condition where I couldn't trust him so he missed his chance and wasted my time.

I guess things like that are bound to happen, I kind of set it up in the back of my mind that things like this would happen but yet you hope it wouldn't.

Not a problem, I can be patient.

rm_nuts4sudoku 53M

8/21/2006 12:22 pm

to bad about your meeting,
i too have met with people who don't portray themselves truthfully. being a drunk loser especially on a first encounter is just amazing to me. from what i've read of your blogs you deserve so much more. i would enjoy the chance to know more. email me
best of luck

firstflight694us 58M

8/23/2006 6:38 am

I think we (men) out number you by like 64,007 to 1. Cracks me up actually. I have never sent an e-mail - seems like "whats the point?"

I am fortunate, I only have to sift through about 11 a week! Pretty easy sifting there!

Oh, sorry bout' yer date...

Life is a journey, just ride~
~[post 974853]~

rjmaggie 51M
730 posts
8/23/2006 11:51 pm

I think firstflight's estimate is about right, especially when you count the "real" women instead of the spammers. What comes to mind is those microscopic movies showing millions of sperm cells attacking an egg. LOL

I've resorted to pretty much just reading and enjoying the blogs. Since yours is a real and interesting situation, and I can relate, I encourage you to share as much as you want!

irishtongue71 52M

8/30/2006 1:15 pm

FF...buddy I've got to get to work! 11? What am I missing? All I get are the Nigerian spammers

Sorry about your plight Michelle, you do sound very nice, the guy was obviously an ass. At least you found out right away.

Keep your chin up, there are nice guys out there to be had that don't even drink or (like myself) drink all that much and can actually carry a stimulating conversation for an evening before you decide what you want to do afterwards


u4dk 61M

9/3/2006 9:05 pm

Hmmm, sounds like you have your "stuff" in order - know when to call and when to fold 'em.

WIpleasuremaster 52M
4 posts
9/17/2006 8:58 pm

Patience is a great virtue, Michelle. Good things come to those who wait. I am certain you will find pleasures aplenty, if you wait for the right one(s) at the right time.

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