A start  

michael59x 58M
15 posts
4/15/2006 8:56 pm

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A start

Well, decided to start up a blog here on AdultFriendFinder..not sure how regular I will be in my posting.

Here is something I have on my mind after not getting anywhere on the local front for the last year. Tried to post it to one of the local groups..but I guess the moderator is absent.

Married bisexual male here whose wife knows I am bi and knows I play, but doesn’t participate. Some of you guys know me as we have communicated here on AdultFriendFinder. If you want more details, look at my profile.

I have been reading through most of the posts here just to see how things have been going here on the local front for getting together.

Don’t know how much luck you guys have had, but I have had better luck getting together with guys from out of town that are here on business. All of these encounters were very enjoyable and the only bad part about them is that they are usually one time events.

Would like to find a local guy or select group of guys for some regular fun. I am growing tired of the ‘audition’ process that I have gone through the last few months.

I am up front about what I want and what I look like and maybe that is part of the problem. Some guys just don’t seem to know what they want and the direct approach seems to scare some off. In addition, I want to take some time and get to know someone before I start having fun.

I know for some guys, it’s really just about getting off. Some of you guys just want quickies in a parking lot or a booth at Erotic City. There is nothing wrong with that, but it’s not what I am looking for.

Finding a place to have fun is also the big issue. I don’t mind paying for a hotel room, but I want to make sure the guy is going to show up. I have had several last minute cancellations for just a public face to face meeting that if I had gotten a hotel room, would have left me with a bill and still no fun. The guys from out of town all have hotel rooms.

The other issue is that most of us need this to be very discreet. I am not ‘out’ to my friends, coworkers, and most of my family. We all know the risks and consequences of what’s at stake if the wrong person finds out.

I am willing to facilitate trying to get a group of us together on a regular basis. I think by reading what I have written so far, you should have a pretty good idea of what kind of guys I am trying to get together.

If you are tired of not getting anywhere and feel like I do, then contact me and let’s see if we can make this happen. If I am not the guy you want to play with, that’s ok too. I still would like to see if we can’t get some guys together for some fun.

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
4/16/2006 1:42 am

welcome to blogland

I'm a

i'm here to stay

gsmiley6 57M
24 posts
4/16/2006 8:30 am

Read your message on KC-Biguys, local group, then read your profile, and ended here reading your blog. It would seem that I have had some of the same luck but I've not been at it that long. I think I will email you a message. Good luck


dom4u1946 71M
1 post
4/18/2006 7:44 pm

love your story, like your blog, lets chats sometime, this could be interesting.

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