need your help...........  

methodman1000 41M
1739 posts
11/8/2005 9:06 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

need your help...........

My baby sister called me and from her voice i knew something wasn't right,after alot of persuasion,and finally after the monetary persuasion she told me what the problem was " i've been wondering what the deal is with you men--i can't for the life of me figure out what you guys want. Lets say you're on a date with a girl and things are going great, chemistry and all that--how far do you want her to let you go? Personally i think the 2 people should do whatever it is that they are both comforable with,i tol d her--but she says she see it happen all the time, we go out, the date goes great, things happen (oral,sex-whatever) and then for whatever reason you don't hear from the guy or he just wants a booty call what gives? do none of you want relationships? Did not know what to tell her,i really felt bad maybe because she my sister or is it because was guilty of such accusation......... so ladies and gents in your opinion when should the girl put the on the breaks?

caressmewell 55F

11/8/2005 10:15 am

It is my opinion that there is at least an 85% chance that a woman risks going to far on the first date chances are great that she will not hear from the guy again or until he can't get booty when he wants it from some other source. Very sad but very true!

looking4fun_604 51F
67 posts
11/8/2005 6:32 pm

A female has to ask herself how far she is willing to go on the first date & not feel bad about it tomorrow if and when he doesn't call her. If she won't hate herself in the morning and all she wants is to get off, then go for it....but if it's a relationship she looking to build, he won't buy the cow if the milk is free.

methodman1000 41M
1775 posts
11/9/2005 12:14 am

Ladied thanks a lot for your comments really appreciate it

mysteriesofme 45F

11/9/2005 7:47 pm

looking4fun is dead on.. I agree with her totally... where is the challenge for them if it is put out so freely? Don't you like to achieve something no others can?

MillsShipsGayly 53M

11/10/2005 8:01 am

Mystery makes them come back for more

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