ME and sex toys..........  

methodman1000 41M
1739 posts
12/15/2005 4:41 am

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ME and sex toys..........


Reading blogs about sex toys and stuff,got me thinking if most men are not intimidated by sex toys.i pondered on this because i recall a friend bringing a sex toy along on a booty call back in my former life,lol... and i was to embarrassed to touch it,now granted i was young,Got to confess am sometime intimidated by sex toys(i was 19,she 25 or thereabout)i tryed the sex toy thing on a lady one other occassion which was a success,but now that am older,am still not 100% comfortable with sex toys.is it a matureity thing or are most guys intimidated or not comfortable with toys?

freetime648 53F

12/15/2005 2:10 pm

Both I think.......one they get intimidated because a sex toy can also be considered a "replacement" to you. And also not comfortable because face it...we all know what a woman does with one...does that mean she will want to do it to you too???? They can be fun...as long as you are comfortable with it and do not look at it like a competitive tool...trust me Method......you will not be in competition I am sure!!!


xx FREETIME648 xx


spoldrtn812 52F  
1058 posts
12/15/2005 3:23 pm

Speaking as a person that uses toys and sells toys, most people have a misconception about toys: PICTURE THIS-- YOU COME IN FROM WORK AND YOU KNOW RIGHT AWAY SOMETHING IS UP. YOU ENTER YOUR BEDROOM AND FIND YOUR GIRL SPRAWLED OUT ON THE BED IN SOME THIGH-HIGH STOCKINGS, THONG, GARTER AND PUMPS AND SHES JACKING OFF TO SOME LET'S FUCK MUSIC WHICH DO YOU DO? What ever you decide you can believe the sex that night is going to be banging. Adult toys are intended to enhance the experience or liven up some boring shit or live out a fantasy. When used with open communication wonderful things can happen. Fellas always wanted you girl to try anal but she was scared? Get her an anal vibrator start slow be patient and in no time at all she'll be begging you. Oops sorry this is not a commercial!

on a more personal note I NEVER use toys without an audience!

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NSAAddict 43F

12/15/2005 9:13 pm

Hi Meth, Just wanted to say you have absolutely NO reason to be intimidated As a matter of fact, you could get those make your own vibrator kits (you make a mold of your member and make it into a vibrator) and sell them on Ebay and become a very rich man I know I'd buy one! Seriously though, I agree with spoldr, it's all about enhancement and fun not replacement. xo, NSA


MrNuttz05 50M

12/15/2005 10:01 pm

Method, allow me to indulge... As a male, I love toys! It's an alternative that ENHANCES the situation... They have so many now, I think one takes your blood pressure during sex, it's called, "The Safe Sex & Clit Stimulator GS2000"... They are fun & the older I have gotten the less intimidated I felt. And spldrtn, I THOUGHT I might find you here


tillerbabe 57F

12/16/2005 12:20 am

You'll "get used" to it......intimidation is normal. Hell..they intimidate me! (some of 'em are really scarey looking!)
It's all about pushing your boundries baby! Experiment! And have fun!
(But I'm wondering....if someone is "hangin'" with you..why would they NEED a sex toy!!!???)


silkysmoothlegs3 106F

12/16/2005 1:46 pm

well i dunno why a women would even want a sex toy if she had you and erm that huge erection in her bed
just a thought
silky xx


spoldrtn812 52F  
1058 posts
12/19/2005 2:57 pm

Yes you will find me where the pretty dicks are with out a doubt!!! Method has been blessed but then again mrNuttz I know that you know you have been blessed as well!!!! I love my kings!!!

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rm_ChivasRegal 58M
69 posts
12/21/2005 11:18 am

I love and buy toys all the time for my woman, especially the ones dealing with anal sex. Gets them ready for me..


foreverready41 76M

12/30/2005 10:54 pm

ask any normal woman, What is better tha a good tongueing?


KDR305 47M/47F

1/6/2006 11:37 pm

this is actually kind of funny. You could have been the model for the dildo I bought my wife for christmas!

I've got a decent-sized cock, but also know that women occasionally want the "king". Some want only the kings, lucky for you.

I knew she would never buy it for herself, so I took her to the website and encouraged her to look around. I'd already decided which one I wanted to get, but I wanted to see what she'd show me.

She showed me a couple of pretty tame little vibrators and a dildo smaller than me (ain't she sweet?).

Finally, I grabbed the mouse and linked to the proper page. "I was thinking more along the lines of something like..... this." And I clicked on the thumbnail. She was then treated to a large photo of "The Fireman". Her eyes absolutely lit up!

She was turned on just by the fact that I was willing to buy it for her.

A few nights later, I lubed it up after we'd watched a little bit of a Lexington Steele movie. I had to take my time, but she took the whole thing (which she'd claimed was doubtful). Once it was in, I kissed and toungued her pussy and sucked her click while I slid that monster in and out.

She came so hard, she was even tighter than normal by the time I got my turn. She was also quite a bit more "outgoing" than usual that night.

I also bought myself a toy when I ordered hers. I never thought I'd do such a thing. For no other reason than I was afraid someone would find it. These days, I couldn't care less. Yes.. I like it. I even figured out a way to use it with no hands, which makes it even further outside of the normal masturbation experience.

Toys can be alot of fun. As long as they're in the open and shared.

Any partner of yours might appreciate something a little smaller to warm up with. Especially if you like anal.


KDR305 47M/47F

1/6/2006 11:39 pm

BTW everyone....

I know the proper spelling is "clit" I was just in speed-mode and didn't properly proof read before posting.


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