Let see......  

methodman1000 41M
1739 posts
3/24/2006 10:26 am

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4/17/2006 4:27 am

Let see......

What do you do when your "sex buddy" starts fallin in love?
Abdandon ship!
Ignore it -- If I don't reciprocate, he/she will get over it.
Restate that this is ONLY sex and hope for the best.
Give love a try -- hey you're already sleeping with him/ her, right

methodman1000 41M
1775 posts
3/25/2006 9:26 am

with you...

want2play926 46F

3/25/2006 10:08 am

I think it all depends on different things....

How do you feel about it?
Do you feel anything for this person?

Just for starters

tillerbabe 57F

3/25/2006 11:13 pm

Just be honest.. figure it out from there..

rm_chill57 36F
180 posts
3/27/2006 6:58 am

Feeling will judge .

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
3/28/2006 8:27 am

Depends on what's going on with me....

I know of people who that has happened to that gave it a shot and it worked out. I also know of people who gave it a shot and
it did not work out. I also know people who abandoned ship and
they were idiots because they walked away from something that could
have been amazing, I think from an detached observation standpoint,
if they would have been willing to have given it a shot. It really is a very individual thing.

I think that women usually stay too long and men often times leave
too soon.... Just an observation over time....

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

Gypsy329 47F

3/31/2006 2:01 pm

In the past, I would've just abandoned ship...

Recently found myself on the other end of this equation. Now, I think you should evaluate your own feelings and if you believe that there could be something real there you should give love a try....

Unfortunately, some will discover that their feelings are mutual but they are not willing to be reciprocal (like in my case) and will therefore abandon ship simply because "love" is not what they really want...even if the person could be so right for them...

Go figure!

sweetpea_40505 53F

4/7/2006 8:52 am

WOW, good question and I hope you don't mind me sharing that question with my blogging friends...

I have been in that boat a time or two. Not a fun place to be knowing those little/big words could either make or break the relationship. I've been lucky enough to share my feelings with my buds and all worked out for the best. I can say they are men adn women that have been in my corner and my bed..lol..when I needed them there..

mycin62 55F

4/13/2006 12:35 am

I have always felt that we, as human beings, have the capacity to love more than one person. I love my husband more than anything in the world, and he is my perfect partner. But, I have also loved some of my lovers too, at the same time. It did not diminish what I felt for him, it made me love him even more.

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