The Girl That Can Dream But Can  

merlion45 51F
549 posts
8/18/2006 6:34 am

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8/27/2006 8:42 pm

The Girl That Can Dream But Can

Background:

The problem I have is maybe one of luxury, but for me it's hard to deal with. When I go out with my best friend, we always talk with two guys we know from previous encounters. You can call them acquaintances. I've had a short relationship with one of them, about four weeks. Four others have, over a period of one year, said they liked me as more then "just friends". The problem is I don't like them the same way. They are just not the guys I can imagine myself having a relationship with: they weren't spontaneous and always said yes to everything I suggested. Although they were faithful, loyal and everything, this is not what I want. I need someone who can surprise me and who lets me see things I never knew existed before.

It seems as though I just can't fall in love with guys who are, in my eyes, boring and normal. The guys I like are the complete opposite of me, but are also the ones I can't seem to reach: those that are adventurous and rebellious. I believe there has to be a certain tension or spark between two people before it can work out romantically. I need an arm around me, someone who is there for me…I need love. I do get enough love from my family and friends, but I feel there's something missing in my life.

Question:
Do I have to start a relationship with a guy I don't truly like? Do I have to wait for a guy that will maybe never come?


rm_edwest2006 58M
195 posts
8/18/2006 6:15 pm

life is such that when you think what you want it's not there, but if you think that you need someone to be there is always that someone who don't fit to what you like it's more of a thing that do not always happen but like the saying goes it's not what you want it's your heart that tell you what you need,be more open and you will find that someone special but remember there is no such things as " the reight one " it you who or rather your heart that tell you what to have or not have .... don't think of the little things that may or not matters but rather the feelings of the heart that counts or what may be the one ... life is not that easy and is hash life is real not a story .........


goodtry 56M
918 posts
8/18/2006 9:46 pm

This is a very difficult question to answer as it is very subjective. My view is that good things is worth to wait for and in most cases you pay a high price for it.

The question is how long will you need to wait before it appears and will it every going to appear.

At times it may be the criteria that you have set that have filtered out some opportunities.


merlion45 51F

8/18/2006 9:49 pm

Thanks edwest2006, I think they have somewhere over there..............must hard wok for find it the Right One!

It's not simply but it really complicated, cause life always never easy.

Trully heart is 0,0000000000001% now in the Moderen World.

Have a nice weekend dear....


rm_ff2max 52M
54 posts
8/19/2006 8:28 am

There are times when relationships are started not because people want a relationship.

That relationship can be evolved...

They enjoyed the acquaintance .. the sharing of jokes.. the heated arguments.. the fun of playing tricks on mutual friends... the journeys of adversities... the joy of accomplishments... and suddenly they felt the togetherness.. the affection ... the spontaneity... they kissed.. they become one...

Is that worth the waiting?


merlion45 51F

8/20/2006 8:07 pm

hi still remember me man, Im angelique 392 i changed my handle.

yeah u have the same tot wif me!

especially in AdultFriendFinder.


merlion45 51F

8/27/2006 8:42 pm

goodtry......easy question to answer, just answer with your feeling OK!


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